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You can understand your Jewish friends and
loved ones more fully. A hands-on guide to the most important questions.
Introducing My Faith and My Communityprovides an introduction to both the basics and complexities of Judaism and Jewish life through the lens of an interfaith relationship. Rather than providing stock answers to questions about Jewish rituals or values, or giving a broad overview of Jewish history and theology, Rabbi Kerry M. Olitzky addresses topics that will encourage understanding and stimulate discussion between you and your Jewish partner, relative, or friend. Topics include:
Acknowledgments ix Introduction xi 1 Faith: A Constellation of Deeply Held Beliefs 1 2 The Foundational Values of Judaism 35 3 Culture: Various Aspects of Jewish Civilization 57 4 Community: The Bonds that Bring People Together 97 Summary of Major Jewish Holidays 129 Glossary 131 Resources for Further Study 141
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You Should Read This Book If:
You are not Jewish and you are married to or are dating someone who is.
Your son, daughter, or anyone close to you who is not Jewish is dating or married to someone who is Jewish.
You are a Jewish community leader, rabbi, cantor, or other professional serving the Jewish community seeking additional insights into interfaith marriages.
You have friends in interfaith relationships and want to introduce them to the beauty of Judaism and the resources of the Jewish community.
You are Jewish and looking for a framework through which to discuss Judaism with your non-Jewish spouse or partner.
You are Jewish and seeking a resource for greater clarity about your own faith to better explain it to your non-Jewish spouse or someone you are dating.
While this book assumes that the reader comes from a Christian background (because the vast majority of Jewish interfaith relationships in North America are with Christians), this book is for everyone involved in Jewish interfaith relationships. If you are of a faith other than Christianity, you can still find meaning in these pages.
Some readers may consult this book on a quest for easy answers to the challenges they face in their interfaith relationships or as a practical how-to for Jewish living. However, rather than always giving the answers, in good Jewish tradition I offer you material to grapple with so that you can derive your own meaning and draw your own conclusions. Those seeking additional information or a step-by-step how to guide may want to refer to The Rituals and Practices of a Jewish Life: A Handbook for Personal Spiritual Renewal (Jewish Lights Publishing), which I coauthored with Rabbi Daniel Judson. For practical guidance in navigating an interfaith relationship, you may find helpful Making a Successful Jewish Interfaith Marriage: The Jewish Outreach Institute Guide to Opportunities, Challenges and Resources (Jewish Lights Publishing), which I coauthored with Joan Peterson Littman.
Introducing My Faith and My Community: The Jewish Outreach Institute Guide for the Christian in a Jewish Interfaith Relationship
First Printing 2004 2004 by Kerry M. Olitzky
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Olitzky, Kerry M. Introducing my faith and my community: the Jewish Outreach Institute guide for the Christian in a Jewish interfaith relationship / Kerry M. Olitzky. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references. ISBN 1-58023-192-6 (pbk.) 1. Judaism. 2. Judaism-Relations. I. Jewish Outreach Institute. II. Title. BM565.O45 2004 296 .02 423-dc22
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For Sarah Littman and Andr a Hanssen, two special women who have enriched the life of our family with their gifts of love and understanding.
Contents
Acknowledgments
Introduction
1 Faith: A Constellation of Deeply Held Beliefs
2 The Foundational Values of Judaism
3 Culture: Various Aspects of Jewish Civilization
4 Community: The Bonds that Bring People Together
Summary of Major Jewish Holidays
Glossary
Resources for Further Study
About Jewish Lights
Copyright
Acknowledgments
Like the origins of so many of the books published by Jewish Lights Publishing, the idea for this particular book came as an invitation from my good friends and colleagues at Jewish Lights, Stuart and Antoinette Matlins. They are sensitive to the variety of needs in the Jewish community, and they also understand the challenges that partners encounter in an interfaith relationship. As I have told them so many times: my profound gratitude to you for championing both my words and my work over the years. May God continue to bless all that you do. As a result of your dedication and commitment, countless lives have been enriched, and the world is a better place.
Many people contributed helpful suggestions at various stages in the writing of this book. Some read every word and offered thoughtful guidance. In particular, I express my appreciation to these people: Rabbi Sam Gordon, who is a pioneer in the field of outreach to intermarried couples and their families; Jenny Jacoby of the Crown Family Foundation; Rabbi Dan Judson, a writing partner, colleague, and friend; Joan Peterson Littman, with whom I collaborated on Making a Successful Jewish Interfaith Marriage ; and Laura Samberg-Faino, an important supporter of my work with interfaith couples and a member of the board of directors of JOI, the Jewish Outreach Institute. Laura read the entire manuscript; her keen insight, sensitivity, and many helpful suggestions are reflected in the pages of this book.
This volume would not have been possible without the guidance of Judith Schwartz, who served as development editor, and Emily Wichland, who is the managing editor at Jewish Lights Publishing. Emily has helped me in innumerable ways-on this project and on many others. In addition, some of the initial ideas for this book were shaped with the assistance of Elisheva Urbas, who has edited other writing projects of mine. I also want to thank Paul Golin, JOI s assistant executive director. It is his subtle genius as a wordsmith that makes so much of the work we do at JOI soar, including many of the ideas in this volume.
None of my work in the field would be possible without the support and encouragement of the board of directors of the Jewish Outreach Institute, my colleagues on staff at JOI, and the many families who share their lives with us on a daily basis. I also acknowledge with a profound sense of gratitude and abiding appreciation the creative leadership and unyielding support of Terry Elkes, JOI s president. I feel blessed to have him as my partner in this organizational enterprise and honored to call him my friend.
Finally, I thank my family-my wife, Sheryl, and our sons, Avi and Jesse-who support me, knowing how important this outreach work is to my rabbinate and how passionately committed I am to the task of promoting an inclusive Jewish community where all can feel welcome, regardless of the path that led them there. Each day they help me to reach higher while encouraging me to reach deeper into myself.
Introduction
Barukh haba. With these words I warmly welcome you. This Hebrew phrase, which basically means we welcome you with blessing, indicates how wholeheartedly I welcome your interest in exploring Judaism and learning more about the Jewish faith and community. While some people approach Judaism curious to know exactly what makes Jews and Judaism tick, this book is primarily designed for people whose quest to learn more about Judaism emerges mainly from a special relationship with someone who is Jewish. Perhaps your partner is Jewish, or your adult child or sibling. One way or other, the whys and hows of the Jewish religion have become personally relevant to you. What differentiates this from other introduction-to-Judaism books is the context and perspective on Judaism provided by an interfaith relationship.
Many books that offer a basic understanding of Judaism do so from a somewhat abstract point of view, conveying its tenets intellectually. This volume is not a how-to book of Jewish rites and rituals; it is more hands-on. For example, you may read about the Jewish value of, say, tzedakah , or charity, and then immediately have a chance to put that impulse into action within your family. Also, the examples used in this book will speak directly to you, the reader, as you too may have stood on the periphery of Jewish culture and are only now beginning to move into the inner circle of Jewish life. Because of your circumstances, the issues presented in these pages are more relevant and thus more vivid for you.
As you will see, the questions implied by the information in this book are not merely theoretical or academic. Instead, they will lead you to insights on the religious and ethnic background of someone very important in your life. Your new knowledge may also help you understand your new relatives-an entire side of your new family whose customs, interests, and beliefs may have previously been foreign to you. If it is your adult child who is in a relationship with someone Jewish and he or she is now committed to establishing a Jewish home and raising Jewish children, then this book will provide a framework for the ideas and values that will help shape the moral character of your future grandchildren. This book will also give you a common language for family conversations, celebrations, and ceremonies. In addition, it will help the Jewish partner in a relationship to deepen knowledge about his or her faith.
Unlike partners who share the same religion, partners in interfaith relationships are often forced to ask themselves questions about faith and beliefs that they may not previously have reckoned with. As they navigate their relationship, an interfaith couple may feel the need to grapple in earnest with the material in this book; because of their differing backgrounds, such couples lack the luxury of taking beliefs and customs for granted. And they may want to discuss their responses and experiences with