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When did kindess become a sign of weakness? What if kindness actually has the power to change the world? Culture is at a crossroads when it comes to kindness. These days we either view kindess as an inert act based on the absence of being a jerk, or we see acts of kindness as heroic and herculean, beyond the reach and capability of mere mortals. Choosing kindness is also exhausting. The public and private back-and-forth exchanges of hatred and de-humanizing that is more about ratings, retweets, and winning than relationships and community is taking a toll on our motivation to even contemplate kindness as a valid response. In Defense of Kindness makes a case that we each can choose kindness as a way to experience community and wholeness in new ways. With a playful spirit, tender heart, and unwavering commitment to justice, "kindness enthusiast" Reyes-Chow explores the many ways in which kindness can bring about healing, wholeness, and hope in ourselves and the world. Through unfiltered sharing of his own experiences, Bruce invites the reader into an adventure of discovery and rediscovery of kindness of heart, mind, spirit, and action.

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Philosophie et théologie

motivation

Assertiveness

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Publié par	Chalice Press
Date de parution	16 mars 2021
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9780827216778
Langue	English

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Contents
Praise for In Defense of Kindness
Copyright
Dedication
Preface
An Introduction
Kindness Defined
Kindness Debunked
Kindness as Commodity
Kindness as Competition
Kindness and Privilege
Kindness and Conflict
Kindness and Those Closest to Us
Kindness and the Public Square
Kindness and the Everyday
Kindness and Institutional Change
Kindness and Resistance
Kindness and Walking Away
Kindness and Forgiveness
Kindness and Saviorism
Kindness and the Internet
Kindness and the Impossible
Won’t You Choose Kindness?
Acknowledgments
Keep in Touch
About the Author

Praise for In Defense of Kindness
“ A simple yet staggering work that examines a precious and rare commodity in this present world, In Defense of Kindness made me think hard about my own actions and attitudes in ways that were admittedly uncomfortable. Woven through with personal anecdotes, observations, and memories, it’s not a ‘self-help’ work but a companion for self-awareness. Bruce’s book is deeply needed, and an essential jumping-off point for the conversations that might actually heal our vast and jagged national divides.”
— Jeff Yang, CNN columnist, cohost of the podcast They Call Us Bruce , and coauthor of the forthcoming book Rise: A Pop History of Asian America, from the Nineties to Now
“ In Defense of Kindness brings a much-needed message in a world filled with violence, intolerance, poverty, and racism. Organized into chapters that weave personal reflection and anecdotes with important topics like conflict, forgiveness, direct action, and institutional change, the book passionately and humorously argues that society suffers from a lack of kindness. Reyes-Chow does not indulge in nostalgic views of ‘gentler times,’ nor a definition of kindness that is simply about being nice to those you agree with (or even vehemently disagree with), but treats kindness as a serious balm for our personal and political lives and the social justice struggles of our day.”
— Liz Theoharis, director of the Kairos Center for Religions, Rights, and Social Justice at Union Theological Seminary and cochair of the Poor People’s Campaign: A National Call for Moral Revival
“ I love this book. I needed this book. And part of the reason I love it so much is I can tell Bruce wrote it because he needed it, too. Instead of feeling preached at or judged because I don’t really feel like being kind these days, Bruce made me chuckle and made me feel like it’s okay that I feel that way, and helped remind me that maybe kindness is part of how we fight injustice. (Oh, spoiler: kindness and justice are complementary, not antithetical. That was good news also.)”
— Sandhya Rani Jha, founder and director of the Oakland Peace Center and author of Liberating Love: 365 Love Notes from God
“ Like a sinkhole, toxic masculinity has opened a chasm that threatens to swallow our world whole. Practiced by men and women; conservative and liberal; woke wannabes and white nationalists alike, the devaluation of kindness promises power but delivers destruction. With wit and heft, Bruce Reyes-Chow’s In Defense of Kindness lights a candle and guides us out of the grift. Reyes-Chow points the way to what our truest selves long for—to be well.”
— Lisa Sharon Harper, author of The Very Good Gospel: How Everything Wrong Can Be Made Right
“ In an age where kindness is needed more than ever before, Bruce Reyes-Chow has given us a beautiful book weaving us back into community with each other. He reminds us of our deepest calling: to be kind…to ourselves, one another, and our world. The kindness that he outlines is not soft, wimpy, or weak. Kindness, according to Reyes-Chow, has passion, backbone, strength, vulnerability, courage, and relentless grace. Kindness is the fertile soil of our deepest transformation. I highly recommend this book for anyone wishing to make this world more kind, just, and generous.”
— Cameron Trimble, executive director of Convergence
“ In this essential read, Bruce Reyes-Chow translates his life of living and teaching kindness into this powerful guide that reminds us of the importance of kindness in our daily lives. In a time of constant change, there could hardly be a more important lesson than this.”
— Rohit Bhargava, bestselling author of Non-Obvious Megatrends
“ Through humor, personal story, and gentle guidance, Reyes-Chow wins us over in In Defense of Kindness , bringing us out of our cynicism and doubts to believe and choose a life of kindness. With concrete suggestions for everyday situations, from family to street protest, the book illuminates that a brave kindness wields the power to transform.”
— Deborah Lee, executive director of Interfaith Movement for Human Integrity
“ At a time of profound discontent across the country, Bruce Reyes-Chow challenges readers to reimage the power of kindness as a way of being in the world. Using personal stories and self- deprecating humor, the author demonstrates how kindness is a powerful resource for personal growth and radical social change.”
— Susan E. Young, director of religious and spiritual life at Occidental College
“ Reyes-Chow not only offers excellent insights in this book, delivered with his usual cheeky wit and disarming authenticity, but he also assigns practical homework at the end of each section to help us bridge the gap between pondering kindness and actually working out our kindness muscles. Highly recommended.”
— David LaMotte, songwriter and author of Worldchanging 101: Challenging the Myth of Powerlessness
“ A book on kindness seems like swimming upstream right now—but it’s good medicine for what ails us. I appreciated the encouragement and the thoughtful reflection about what kindness might look like in different arenas of life. All with an enjoyable dose of playful humor. Well worth the brief time it takes to read it.”
— Alexia Salvatierra, assistant professor of integral mission and global transformation at Fuller Theological Seminary and coauthor of Faith-Rooted Organizing: Mobilizing the Church in Service to the World
“ Choosing kindness is a difficult yet life-giving decision. Thankfully, Bruce Reyes-Chow has written a helpful guide for all of us on this journey. He invites us to defend the human dignity of all people and orient our lives accordingly. This book will make a difference in the lives of its readers and our communal life as well.”
— Guthrie Graves-Fitzsimmons, author of Just Faith: Reclaiming Progressive Christianity
“ In an age when bullying behavior is so pervasive—whether in playgrounds, pulpits, or from political leaders—Bruce Reyes-Chow calls for a return to kindness. With self-reflective honesty and vulnerability, he shows us what a life of kindness entails. From the personal sphere to the public square, In Defense of Kindness challenges us to look at relationships through the lens of dignity and respect and engage in behaviors that center kindness as a radical act that honors the humanity of us all.”
— Bishop Karen Oliveto, Mountain Sky Conference, the United Methodist Church
“ We strive to teach our children to be kind, but how do we navigate a world that has increasingly lost its faith in the value of kindness? In Defense of Kindness is a thoughtful, introspective, and timely exploration of what it means to actively choose kindness as a political and personal principle—a much-needed salve as we emerge out of the darkness of the last four years and take a healing step toward a brighter (and hopefully, kinder) future. ”
— Jenn Fang, founder of Reappropriate
“ Bruce beautifully brings into focus a much-needed cause for each of us to champion. An antidote for our current malaise. Choosing kindness can be quite complex. This is a simple yet heroic book, much like kindness can be a simple yet heroic act in itself.”
— Darren A. Kawaii, educator/activist
“ In this timely book, Bruce Reyes-Chow shows just how much kindness affects our whole way of being and offers practical and relevant ways for healing our world’ s divisions and conflicts, as well as deeply personal relationships. What an important, authentic, and inspiring reminder to appreciate kindness and dare to incorporate it once again into our daily living!”
— Janie Spahr, PC(USA) minister and LGBTQ+ activist
“ In an age in which meanness is not only encouraged but celebrated, Bruce Reyes-Chow provides a healing balm. With humor, honesty, wisdom, and practical advice, In Defense of Kindness will help you discover the hopeful, courageous, and generous spirit that waits within every human heart.”
— Mark Yaconelli, author of The Gift of Hard Things
“ This book gives me hope. Bruce Reyes-Chow has crafted a guidebook for expanding and integrating the practice of kindness into everyday leadership for people of diverse backgrounds for all communities. Each chapter introduces a personal story and meaningful scenario with thoughtful prompts for deeper introspection and immediate action. In Defense of Kindness is a treat, a treatise, and a necessary call to action. This book is required reading for those aspiring to or practicing intentional leadership in our times.”
— Julius Paras, curator at Filamthropy
“ Bruce is the companion and teacher I need to be a more loving spouse, parent, friend, and leader. His in-depth exploration of kindness is a tool we need to become the community we are called to be.”
— Abby King-Kaiser, director of the Dorothy Day Center for Faith and Justice at Xavier University
“ Wielding kindness is a powerful, effective, impactful tool in your arsenal, far too important to be a bumper sticker for random acts. Bruce Reyes-Chow has considered the implications of intentional kindness and created a comprehensive how-t