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Parents often have a tendency to blame children for their failings - little realising that their own role in their personality development is of much greater significance than their offsprings''. Parents need to look within to see how they can be model parents and provide a healthy environment for proper mental, emotional and physical growth of their children. Focussing on this basic issue, this book holds a mirror to parents, and shows how they can excel in the art of parenting. However over protection or restrictiveness can spoil a child; permissiveness or indulgence can make him anti-social, and any rejection can work on his personality, as to why he takes to lying, stealing or mud-eating.

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Publié par	V & S Publishers
Date de parution	09 janvier 2017
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9789350578551
Langue	English

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How to Kids on Track
Hari Datt Sharma
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Edition 2018 DISCLAIMER While every attempt has been made to provide accurate and timely information in this book, neither the author nor the publisher assumes any responsibility for errors, unintended omissions or commissions detected therein. The author and publisher make no representation or warranty with respect to the comprehensiveness or completeness of the contents provided. All matters included have been simplified under professional guidance for general information only without any warranty for applicability on an individual. Any mention of an organization or a website in the book by way of citation or as a source of additional information doesn’t imply the endorsement of the content either by the author or the publisher. It is possible that websites cited may have changed or removed between the time of editing and publishing the book. Results from using the expert opinion in this book will be totally dependent on individual circumstances and factors beyond the control of the author and the publisher. It makes sense to elicit advice from well informed sources before implementing the ideas given in the book. The reader assumes full responsibility for the consequences arising out from reading this book. For proper guidance, it is advisable to read the book under the watchful eyes of parents/guardian. The purchaser of this book assumes all responsibility for the use of given materials and information. The copyright of the entire content of this book rests with the author/publisher. Any infringement/transmission of the cover design, text or illustrations, in any form, by any means, by any entity will invite legal action and be responsible for consequences thereon.
Preface
R aising well-balanced children is an art. The sincerity of parents in discharging their responsibility towards their children will reflect in the development of the latter. In other words, as parents sow, so shall they reap – in the form of well-balanced children. Proper upbringing demands active effort, concern, sensitivity, understanding and empathy on the part of parents.
It is impossible to write a perfect prescription to mould ourselves into caring and successful parents. However, there are some guidelines that parents may find quite useful. One must note that there are many variations in parents, as there are in children. Furthermore, when we talk of parents and couples, we are not dealing only with two people but also with the net result of their interaction with each other. Also, remember that there are some prerequisites for effective parenting, just as there are for most tasks.
Every child needs emotionally stable parents who are mature and love each other. In homes where there is only one parent, his/her task becomes very complex, as s/he must take on many additional tasks ordinarily handled by the other parent.
Parents need to demonstrate their love for their children not only by their actions but also by the kind of environment they create in their homes. A child develops a feeling of security and confidence when he knows that he is loved.
Parents need to develop some understanding of their child’s personality, as his talents, interests and aspirations mature. With this understanding, they can assist the child in aiming more accurately towards his goals, thus helping him fulfil his objectives.
Through discipline, guidance and encouragement, parents provide opportunities for the healthy exploration of natural surroundings by the child. They foster curiosity in their children to help them realise their full potential. Children who are deprived of such opportunities tend to fear the unknown and the future.
Parents must encourage children to express their true feelings. Successful parents imbue their family with a sense of belonging and provide opportunities for democratic planning and social action.
Consideration of and help for individual and family problems must be provided readily. The test of the genuineness of a problem lies more with the intensity of feeling about it, than with the nature of the problem itself. There are times when the father’s needs must be, at least temporarily, relegated to second place because of the needs of his child. Successful parents constantly seek better ways to do what they have to do without affecting their attention towards their children.
A child’s maladjustment with society often results from a poor parent-child relationship, which in turn often stems from lack of correct understanding by parents about their children. An adverse upbringing and the contemporary family situation are two powerful factors of maladjustment.
This book provides useful tips to parents to help their children develop normally – physically, mentally, emotionally and academically. Ignorance by parents about their child’s special emotional and other needs can spoil the whole life of a child.
The main purpose of this book is to provide you with the necessary information to make you successful parents. Morals are imbibed and not taught. As the parents sow, so shall their children reap.
—Hari Datt Sharma
Founder
Peace of Mind Mission
New Delhi
Ten Commandments for a Child’s Behaviour Development
1. When children live with encouragement, they develop CONFIDENCE.
2. When children live with tolerance, they learn to be PATIENT.
3. When children live with criticism, they learn to CONDEMN.
4. When children live with ridicule, they learn to be SHY.
5. When children live with hostility, they learn to FIGHT.
6. When children live with praise, they learn to APPRECIATE.
7. When children live with shame, they learn to feel GUILTY.
8. When children live with security, they learn to have FAITH.
9. When children live with approval, they learn to LIKE themselves.
10. When children live with acceptance, they learn to find LOVE.
Contents Preface 1. Parental Behaviour that Plays Havoc with Children • Overprotection and Restrictiveness • Rejection – a Masked Deprivation • Over-permissiveness and Indulgence • Parental Over expectations • Faulty Discipline

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