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From Christian marriage experts and bestselling authors Bill and Pam Farrel comes a new book for women about romance, passion, and becoming the godly woman your husband needs. With an in-depth look at the qualities a man finds attractive in a woman, you'll learn how to build and maintain a Christian marriage romantic ideas and tips for stoking the flames of love...and keeping them burning what the Bible says about marriage With wisdom, humor, and devotional questions to provoke discussion, Red-Hot Romance Tips for Women will keep your marriage sizzling!

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Publié par	Harvest House Publishers, Inc.
Date de parution	01 janvier 2014
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9780736951500
Langue	English

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HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS
EUGENE, OREGON
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are taken from the New American Standard Bible , 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. ( www.Lockman.org )
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RED-HOT ROMANCE TIPS FOR WOMEN
Copyright 2014 by Bill and Pam Farrel
Published by Harvest House Publishers
Eugene, Oregon 97402
www.harvesthousepublishers.com
ISBN 978-0-7369-5149-4 (pbk.)
ISBN 978-0-7369-5150-0 (eBook)
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Contents
Beginning Your Red-Hot Romance Journey
Appreciative
Beautiful
Classy
Direct
Expressive
Fun
Good
Humble
Interesting
Joyful
Kind
Loving
Moral
Nurturing
Optimistic
Passionate
Quiet Spirit
Respectful
Sensual
Thoughtful
Unselfish
Virtuous
Wise
Xenophilic
Yummy
Zestful
Notes
Red-Hot Monogamy
Contact the Authors
BEGINNING YOUR RED-HOT
Romance Journey
I hope you ve seen it, felt it, experienced it at least once-that sparkle in your man s eye; that wide, full-toothed bemused grin from ear to ear; that strong arm reaching out to hold you; that hot breath on your neck begging you to come nearer, nearer, nearer; that kiss on the nape of your neck followed by the whisper, I want you I need you I love you I desire you.
Deep down we women have the desire to be desired, but often we shun the idea of becoming women who are desirable . After all, that might require some changes on our part. To become the beloved, we might have to be loving . Allure is a word we often see used in reference to the pursuit or early days of a romantic relationship. To achieve the preferred status of being appealing, we have to work on not being annoying, agitating, or aggravating.
Through this book, we re going to explore 26 traits (A to Z) that will help make us desirable, alluring, and sought-after wives. To glean these traits, Bill and I took statements we heard from husbands and studied them to discern the most common hurts, disappointments, and pains of men s hearts. Then we explored how romancing husbands might help things from the wives s side of the equation. (Please check out our website www.Love-Wise.com for a list of the most common frustrations husbands voice and helpful information on marriage and romance in marriage.) We turned those grievances inside out to find the romantic qualities wives could use to fan the flames on the embers of love.
We ll explore the qualities men find attractive in women. The best way to fan the flames on love is to become the irresistible women of our men s dreams!
Bill and I want to be totally upfront with you. We hold a natural view of sexual enhancement and education. We believe that love, sex, and intimacy were pretty amazing when God created them back in the time of the Garden of Eden. This means we won t be encouraging you to buy a suitcase full of sexual toys, expensive enhancement tools, or employ anything that might violate the precious secret-and-sacred space of your marital bed. We also won t be including a discussion on birth control. (We have an exhaustive discussion of that in our book The First Five Years .)
The focus of Red-Hot Romance Tips for Women is to help you build your originality and ingenuity into your marriage. There will be plenty of red-hot ideas shared, but they are meant to be sparks to ignite your imagination. We believe the most erotic spot in your body is your mind. At the core, red-hot romance is not a list of ideas. It is all about relationship!
We ve designed this journey to sizzling romance to be simple to follow. There are just 26 entries arranged alphabetically. If you read and apply one each day, in 26 days you could become a new woman: more loving, caring, compassionate, and sexy. You can also space out the application to one a week so that over the course of approximately six months you ll have 26 romantic encounters. We recommend the compressed, 26-days-in-a-row model because it provides several perks:
Focus- All your time, energy, and thoughts will be aimed at one goal: becoming more desirable.
Freedom- You will like the woman you are becoming: sexy, sought-after, alluring.
Fine-tuning- Your essence, your character, your inner heart, and your being will be impacted. You ll become well, nicer. This book will help sand off any rough edges .
It Is Worth It!
There is no downside to becoming a more alluring woman. As you become more desirable, it does raise the possibility, the chance, the likelihood that your husband will notice the difference and want to spend more time-even more romantic or sexual time-with you. However, in the remote chance that he doesn t respond the way you hope or expect, keep putting your energy into this process. You will like the more confident, skilled, and affectionate woman you will become. Everyone in your life will benefit.
KISS It!
Take a moment to write a few goals for what you hope will be the result of the time we ll spend together developing your red-hot romance skills. A strong goal for love should include a KISS:
K nowledgeable -You might have to get out of your comfort zone and do some research and reconnaissance to find the best answers for your situation. We ve tried to provide a solid launching pad for your exploration and investigation. What one question do you hope gets answered?
I nspired -Dream grand and attempt greatness on behalf of your man and your marriage. How do you want to feel toward you husband by day 26?
S pecific -Nail down the details. Take a hope and turn it into a tangible action plan. What one habit of love do you hope happens?
S cheduled -Be intentional. Make time for this project. You ll need time to read, time to pray for your man and your marriage, and time for red-hot romance moments and dates. Plan action steps and then write them on your calendar or in your Outlook calendar so you ll get them accomplished. What days and times will you dedicate to this journey toward red-hot love?
Answering these few questions will help you KISS.
Don t Go It Alone
God is with you, and He is the author of love!
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God (1 John 4:7).
God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in [her] (1 John 4:16) .
We love, because [God] first loved us (1 John 4:19) .
Yes, God is with you on this journey! Talk to Him about your hopes, dreams, ideas, and feelings. If you hit a tough spot, simply stop and say, God, show me what to do. He ll plant the seed of an idea, a spark of desire, and give you a glint of hope.
Ask Someone to Help You
You might be braver, more willing, and better able to follow through if you have some accountability. You and a friend, a sister, a mentor, or even a marriage-related Bible-study group can walk this path together. Ask God to let you know who might be willing to go with you on this journey toward being a more loving woman. Then buy her a copy of this book and get started. Or get a group of women and make the trek together toward becoming better wives and lovers. (At www.Love-Wise.com you can get a downloadable discussion guide for this book.)
I (Pam) have seen great power in this sistering to encourage each wife to love her husband more faithfully. Bill and I wrote a book called Red-Hot Monogamy . It s an 8-week guide to help couples turn up the temperature behind bedroom doors. The book is for a couple to read together, and it includes hands-on homework (pun completely intended)