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Publié par	Diamond Books
Date de parution	06 novembre 2020
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9789385975301
Langue	English

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T he book gives more comprehensive description of the human male and female generative organs along with the problems that afflict them to cause impotence and infertility. A few illustrative charts and diagrams have been included to make the lay reader understand the functioning of these organs.
It throws light on the various modern techniques to cure impotence and infertility so that the couples can hope for the best in the near future.
The basic theme of this book is to help the childless couples solve their psychological, physical and medical problems and to keep them away from falling into the grip of the unscrupulus quacks, ‘Babajis’ and the self-proclaimed sexologists.
A Beacon of Hope for The Childless Couples

eISBN: 978-93-8597-530-1
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Publisher: Diamond Pocket Books (P) Ltd.
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Edition: 2004
A Beacon of Hope for The Childless Couples
By - Dr. Satish Goel
CONTENTS
Introduction
Foreword The Psyche of An Issueless Couple Human Sex-Organs Conception, Menstruation and Ovulation Female Problems Male Problems Examination of the Female Body Examination of the Male Body Possible Treatment of Impotence Possible Treatment of Infertility Adopting A Child
Glossary
I NTRODUCTION
T his book, as the name suggests, is devised for the childless couples in a simple and easy to comprehend language the various causes that might be coming in their way of having their own child. In order to make this book more comprehensive, brief description of the human male and female generative organs along with the problems that afflict them to cause impotence and infertility have also been added. A few illustrative charts and diagrams have been included to make the lay reader understand the functioning of these organs.
While every attempt has been made to enlighten the childless couples and keep them away from falling into the grip of the unscrupulous quacks, ‘Babajis’ and the self-proclaimed sexologists it must be realised that unless helped by a competent doctor they can’t sire their issues merely by these guides and other books of the same genre. It is to supplement their deficient knowledge about the possible causes of the trouble and not to supplant the qualified doctor that these sort of books could and should be found useful. Now since most of the treatments are available in even small towns of our country, these couples after going through this book, can start their treatment in right earnest to realise their cherished dream. A brief and informative description of the various modern techniques to cure impotence and infertility - most of which are still under the developmental or experimental stages-have been given so that the couples can hope for the best in near future.
Lastly the author expresses his regards and gratitude to Mr. Narender Kumar, Managing Director of Diamond Pocket Books, whose liberal help made this work possible to help the Childless Couples. May their prayers be answered by God.
— Dr. Satish Goel
F OREWORD
M ay be, the root-cause of your childlessness is hidden somewhere in this very book; possibly you may get your darling child with the help of this modest book since you don’t know which side from you get your most cherished dream realised.
Of course luck plays a vital role in life but effort part too, can’t be gainsaid. After all, God helps those who help themselves! Hence you have to be a bit more alert and a bit more attentive. May be the cause of your childlessness is enshrined in the effort itself. Unfortunately most of us depend too much on our Doctor’s advice. We treat it as the gospel truth without ourselves trying to analyse as to why at all our Doctor has given this particular piece of advice. In fact, we hardly play any active role in our any treatment we listen to and obey the Doctor and his prescription. But Doctor is there to help you and he or she is best helped when you help yourself. It is our firm conviction that a little knowledge about your generative organs would go a long way to help you find your problem’s solution with the Doctor’s guidance. The functioning of your generative organs, their limitations and disturbances, how their efficiency can be preserved and even enhanced are some of those measures which are likely to pin-point at the basic cause of your worry. As they say, a right diagnosis of the trouble ensures half its cure at the very outset.
Today is the age of science and technological miracles. Even in medical field cures for most chronically afflicting diseases have been found. But you can desire their advantages only when you are aware of them. It is your awareness about new discoveries and inventions which will not only enlighten you but help you eventually to know as what ails you.
The main objective, therefore, of this book is to have you treated best for your trouble without being either duped by the quacks or cheated by the experts. But remember that a book can’t replace your Doctor no matter how lucidly and informatively written. This book might help you find your way; your Doctor will tell you how to walk on your that way to reach success. It is ultimately the opinion of your Doctor that must be the final word. Never follow what is written not only in this but also any other book of this kind without consulting your Doctor. In fact one of the maladies of this ‘instant age’ is to go for instant solution of any problem.
Although fortunately childlessness is not a serious problem in our Indian society - on the contrary ‘over-childfulness’ is the major problem here!- yet those who have this, know that it remains as an irremovable stigma both in social and personal perspectives. Especially for women this is an almost unbearable agony. So the best way for the childless couples is to try all sorts of reasonable and logical treatments and in case there be no hope then they should quietly adopt a child. There is no dearth of such parents who might be having too many of them. But this adoption ought to be at the child’s early infancy so that you may rear it up with your own liking and preferences. In fact, many doctors assert that not much effort should be made in this direction since adoption is expected to meet the individual’s requirement as also help in solving country’s population explosion problem. This way the childless couple will have their child while those who have too many would be considerably relieved. However, there may be such adamant childless couples who may not have anything other than their own, physically produced, child. Anyway, this is an eternal debate and beyond the scope of this book. The basic theme of this book is to help the childless couple solve their psychological, physical and medical problems as much as possible through advice and treatment.
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T HE P SYCHE OF A N I SSUELESS C OUPLE

‘A woman attains consummation of her being by becoming a mother’, is what the erudition and experience down the ages assert and quite truly so. A woman without child is like an infertile or barren land which appears an eye-sore among most of the green and verdant fields. A married woman pining for the warmth of a baby produced by herself is, indeed, a fit case for compassion and sympathy. But ironically and cruelly, most of them receive neglect, contempt or down right derogation.
Especially for an Indian woman inability or incapacity to produce a child is a curse no matter whether its barrenness may not be the real cause of her misfortune - but she has to bear the entire brunt of the agony, disgrace and to some extent, plain torture. Whereas the medical researches prove that in 40 percent of such cases the accusing finger points towards the man, in 20 percent both men and women, due to their physical defect. So, broadly speaking, in nearly 60 percent cases the childlessness is caused by the man’s inability to produce a child.
Nevertheless, when parents go around to find a suitable groom for their daughter or a suitable bride for their son their relations move heaven and earth - at least in the Indian societies- to provide all the information about the prospective ‘Candidate’: his or her qualifications, built, colour of the skin, height, features and what not. Most of the traditional families insist on having even the horoscopes of the potential groom and the bride matched with lot of traditional knowledge about various attributes thrown in the consideration. It is believed that astrologically ‘36’ attributes are matched out of which half matching (18 attributes) are good, more than 20 as good as decreed by the Divine will.
But have you ever heard any astrologer declaring that this pair is likely to be childless? Or would any mother like to have an infertile woman as her son’s bride no matter dowry worth millions be accompanying her?
In other words no matter how erudite an astrologer be it is difficult for him to foretell as to which pair is likely to be issueless. Normally if after two to three years a bride doesn’t ‘beam’ the ‘happy news’ the senior member of the household become alarmed. Earlier they don’t worry as much in the fond belief that they (the bride and groom) are still childish in temperament or may be, using some contraceptive device they have decided to remain childless for some more time. However, after the expiry of the normal ‘period of expectation’ like a year or two, the married sisters-in-law and young aunties start indirectly questioning the bride? Like they would say : “When we will have laddoos ? or “When are you giving the good news” and the like. For a woman having any generative defect in her or her husband, these questions symbolise the onset of her period of apprehension and agony. In one moment she might dream of listening to the songs sung at child birth called ‘sohar’ in a courtyard filled with beaming female relations cooing and