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With demands to be met, decisions to be made and relationships to be navigated, it can be hard to find time to pause and catch your breath. It's time to put well-being first. Mindfulness at Work and Home is the perfect companion to mindfulness on the go. Packed with simple hints, practical tips, quotes and downloadable audio-guided meditations, this essential guide can be used by anyone, anywhere to: * Reduce stress * Increase focus * Tame your inner critical voice * Overcome fear * Improve sleep * Reduce anxiety

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Publié par	RedDoor Press
Date de parution	26 septembre 2019
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9781913227289
Langue	English

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GILLIAN HIGGINS
MINDFULNESS
AT WORK AND HOME
A SIMPLE GUIDE
PRAISE FOR MINDFULNESS AT WORK AND HOME
‘This book is an excellent introduction to mindfulness for all who find the pressure of work or home life stressful. As an international criminal barrister, Gillian Higgins knows first-hand how overwhelming such pressure can be. In this book, written with genuine warmth, openness and clarity, she stays close to the scientific evidence, as well as drawing from her own experience of practicing and teaching mindfulness, to offer simple and practical steps to stay well in the midst of the stresses of life. I warmly commend this book.’
Mark Williams, Emeritus Professor of Clinical Psychology, University of Oxford
‘ Mindfulness at Work and Home demystifies how to practice mindfulness in today’s ever-intensifying world. Higgins weaves the science of neuroplasticity and her own courageous transformation into an accessible guide with grounding meditations, actionable steps, and kind encouragement for meditators of all experience. This book is for those living in the real world looking for focus, compassion, and authenticity in our commute, communication, and all the moments in between.’
Sharon Salzberg, author of Lovingkindness and Real Happiness
‘International criminal barrister, Gillian Higgins, has written a comprehensive guide to the benefits of mindfulness meditation for both work and home. She tells us about the profound difference mindfulness has made to her life and gives us a roadmap to discovering what it can do for us. I wholeheartedly recommend this book to you.’
Mary Pearson, CEO and co-founder of the British School of Meditation and author of Meditation, The Stress Solution
‘Mindfulness restores the soul. In these uncertain times, Gillian Higgins provides a path for gaining insight as to who we are, what we are doing and what we should be doing. This book adds meaning to our lives.’
Steven Kay QC, International Barrister
‘Gilly is the “Queen of Calm”. Her approach makes life better. I want to buy this book for everyone I know ... and make them read it!’
Miranda Gore Browne, writer, cook, mother and finalist on the first series of The Great British Bake Off
‘The work of a barrister is demanding and pressured and can be very lonely. The stress under which they work is often transmitted to their clerks who are there to support them. Only another barrister can really understand the stresses and strains of life at or around the Bar. Gillian Higgins is uniquely placed to open the “mindfulness closet” and to encourage an inherently reluctant audience to embrace the practice of mindfulness.
Coming from a place of knowledge, this practical handbook demonstrates the benefits of mindfulness and provides the reader with a step-by-step guide on how to introduce and incorporate mindfulness into the day-to-day schedule. The background and traits of barristers often result in having a number of the characteristics that this book will help to calm: stress, distorted thinking, a busy mind and managing conflict to name a few. This is an excellent, practical book and is exactly what is needed.’
Carolyn McCombe, Head of Professional Standards and ADR at 4 Pump Court and Nick Hill, Senior Clerk at 3 New Square and former Chair of the Institute of Barristers’ Clerks
‘Gillian Higgins gives us the science and the benefits of mindfulness meditation and, best of all, really simple tools and techniques for use in our everyday lives. Gillian addresses common questions like, “I don’t have enough time to meditate”, “how to deal with your inner critical voice” and “dealing with difficult colleagues”. Practical, relevant and achievable.’
General Counsel at FTSE 100 Company
‘This is an engaging and practical guide to mindfulness and sets out how easy it is to incorporate into your daily life at work and home. You may think you are too busy to practice mindfulness or may have some doubts about its benefits, but in this book Gillian will persuade you how mindfulness can transform your life – bringing greater clarity, focus, calm and better relationships with the people around you. In the 21st century hyper-connected world of information overload, this book is a must!’
Eizabeth Rimmer, Chief Executive of LawCare
Published by RedDoor www.reddoorpress.co.uk
© 2019 Gillian Higgins
The right of Gillian Higgins to be identified as author of this Work has been asserted by her in accordance with sections 77 and 78 of the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, copied in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise transmitted without written permission from the author
This book is not intended as a substitute for the medical advice of physicians. The reader should regularly consult a physician in matters relating to his/her health and particularly with respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention
A CIP catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library
Cover design: ironicitalics.com
Typesetting: Sheerdesignandtypesetting.co.uk
To my family
CONTENTS
PREFACE
CHAPTER 1: GETTING STARTED
What is mindfulness?
What is mindfulness meditation?
Getting started
Intention and motivation
Position and posture
What do I need?
When and where to meditate
How long?
The travelling mind
Daily mindfulness
Meditation: Conscious breathing
A quick reminder
CHAPTER 2: AM I DOING IT RIGHT?
Initial Challenges
I don’t have enough time
I can’t sit still to meditate
Meditation sounds boring
My mind zips around when I meditate
Isn’t meditation complicated and long-winded?
Simple tips to build your practice
Daily mindfulness
Meditation: The three-minute breathing space
A quick reminder
CHAPTER 3: IT’S GOOD FOR YOU
How is it going to help?
Stress
Focus and attention
Inner critical voice
Frequently asked questions
What happens if I fall asleep?
When I meditate, should I breathe in any particular way?
What do I do with incoming thoughts?
How will I feel when I meditate?
Is mindfulness religious?
Daily mindfulness
Meditation: Uniqueness of breath
A quick reminder
CHAPTER 4: TOO WORRIED TO SETTLE?
Settling a busy mind
Worry and anxiety
Fear
Not always easy…
Is it helpful to meditate with others?
My back aches when I meditate – is this normal?
Can you meditate with your eyes open?
Daily mindfulness
Meditation: The body scan
A quick reminder
CHAPTER 5: RESILIENCE, SLEEP AND KINDNESS TO SELF
Resilience
Sleep
Self-compassion
Frequently asked questions
What do I do if a worry arises while I’m meditating?
If I meditate, will I lose ‘my edge’?
Isn’t meditation self-indulgent?
Daily mindfulness
Meditation: Arising sounds and thoughts
A quick reminder
CHAPTER 6: FIGHTS, HABITS AND MOVING ON
Managing conflict
Breaking bad habits
Maintaining mindfulness
Frequently asked questions
My partner/husband/daughter needs mindfulness – How do I persuade them to try it?
Is mindfulness just a fad?
Daily mindfulness
Meditation: Loving kindess
A quick reminder
CONCLUSION
14-day mindfulness and gratitude log
Endnotes
Resources
Acknowledgements
About the author
PREFACE
The world can be a noisy place. There are constant demands, nagging complaints, frequent requests and decisions to be made. There is too little distance between comfort and fear, between action and anger. Technology is setting the pace – and we are struggling to keep up. It all feels a bit too tense. We need time out, a moment to breathe and space to reflect.
Working in different countries around the world, I have spent a significant part of the last two decades making decisions, meeting deadlines, giving difficult advice and managing teams. As an international criminal lawyer, I have represented heads of state, former presidents, military leaders and politicians. In the process, I’ve analysed corridors of evidence of war crimes, crimes against humanity and genocide. It has been a unique experience, but it has also involved prolonged periods of stress, which have periodically spilled over into my private life.
However, it wasn’t until I was about to become a parent for the first time that I really started to think about how I wanted to feel less worried and more present. I wanted to be able to respond more sensitively to situations at work and home. I wasn’t sure how to bring about these changes but I knew from my limited experience of meditation some years ago, that it had helped me to feel a sense of calm. Over the past few years, interest in mindfulness had grown significantly and I was keen to learn more. I joined a local class, read as many books as I could and started to practise at home, even when I didn’t want to.
After a few months, I started to feel a subtle difference. At work I became more able to cope with stressful situations, less reactively. I interpreted the outcomes of difficult conversations less personally and found rejection and disappointment somehow easier to handle. It was hard to explain this to others, but I felt slight positive shifts in my ability to manage people and difficult conversations. It even made my commute to London more manageable as it became a time of practice, rather than a source of irritation. The benefits were real. I managed to avoid or stop arguments at home by becoming aware of the tone of my voice – and changing it slightly. I paused and breathed deeply before responding to the inexplicable rage of my young daughter. I became aware of the physical rising of my own anger and frustration when things went wrong. I discerned more readily when to rest rather than ‘push on through’ and became more compassionate towards myself when I didn’t live up to my own high expectations.
With time, I became a better listener, less insistent on being h