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This book is a masterpiece by Mr. Joginder Singh (IPS), Former Director of CBI, who is also an eminent author and motivator. Hailing from a poor farmer's family, he scaled the pinnacle of success through sheer motivation and hard work. The saga of his success is worth emulating for any young aspirant to achieve his desired goal and be successful in life. Excellent suggestions with suitable examples have been cited in this book which will guide everyone to fulfil his most cherished dreams. So, set your goal, plan accordingly, march ahead, and write your own story of success.

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Publié par	Diamond Books
Date de parution	06 novembre 2020
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9788128822742
Langue	English

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How To Achieve Your Goal

eISBN: 978-81-2882-274-2
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Publisher: Diamond Pocket Books (P) Ltd.
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Edition: 2015
How To Achieve Your Goal
By - Joginder Singh
Preface
All of us want to do better in our lives and desire to become superstars as individuals, workers, parents and human beings. We want to excel in our respective fields so that not only our friends, colleagues and family feel proud of us but we ourselves feel worthwhile and gratified with our own performance. Every moment of our life we are writing the history of our lives. Each one of us is a king of our own little empire whether it is our house or a working table.
Our real problem is that we unconsciously allow ourselves to be burdened with the weight of the past days which are long over. Yesterday is a memory and tomorrow is still to come. What matters most for us is today. We have to let go of yesterday blunders and release ourselves of its burdens as today is all we have at our disposal and we should live and work in it to the best of our abilities. By not doing our best, we are cheating ourselves and the people we work for. Time is not going to wait for us and it is upto us to make the best of it to make a mark in life. However we should bear in mind that what might work today may not necessarily work tomorrow. We have to change with the requirements of time.
We should plan what we want to do today. Without a plan we would feel disoriented and lost. It is better to have some plan however imperfect than none. We should also be clear about what we want to do.
If we look back in our life, we would discover that life is a mixed bag full of hopes, achievements, disappointments and frustrations. We should bear in mind that all setbacks are a part of life. The most important thing is to follow our passion and courage to realise our dream. If we can convince ourselves that the worst is over and tomorrow would be better, we can win half the battle of overcoming the hardships of today. Let us not look at the life as a painful experience. Rather it as a learning experience. Pain and pleasure are inseparable as long as we live, as rainbow is inextricably linked with rain.
We are what we are. We are unique in the sense that nobody is like us in the world. However, to what extent we transform or make of our life is entirely upto us. Sometimes we learn our lessons by own experience and sometimes by the experience of other.
Our aim should be to become a champion in our chosen field. We ourselves feel better if we perform well. We should make it a habit not to settle for or accept second rate performance from ourselves. Excellence is a skill which can be achieved by repeatedly doing what we are doing or will do. The only requirement is that we should be our own best critic and judge. We should strive to improve and better our own record.
A man of action can be any one of us who knows the value of the time and seizes every opportunity to move ahead. He also enjoys whatever he does. To be successful and to be at the top requires a combination of various skills and characteristics like self-confidence, outstanding performance, punctuality, total dedication and unremitting hard work.
Luck is born out of the preparation and hard work. It is the men who make history and it is not the history which makes men. We must make the best of everything which comes along our way.
My Good Wishes are always with you.
– Joginder Singh (IPS) Former Director, CBI Eminent Author & Motivator
Contents How To Transform Dream Into Reality? How To Get The Best Out Of Life? How To Be A Leader? How Dedication Helps Us To Cross Hurdles? How To Use Success And Action Strategies? How To Become A More Reliable Person? How To Develop A Feel-Good Factor? How To Walk On The Elite Street? How To Carve A Niche? How To Utilise The Power Of Positive Thinking? How To Use The Opportunities? How To Stop Finding Faults? How To Use Eye Contact For Success? How To Reach The Prime Performance? How To Communicate Effectively? How To Manage Failure And Convert It Into Success? How To Hit The Right Path? How To Make The Most Of Our Era? How To Make The Best Use Of Today? How Not To See Life Through Tinted Glasses? How To Deal With Disappointments? How To Boost Your Self-Confidence? How To Overcome Your Weaknesses? How To Vigorously Pursue Your Goal? How To Impress Others? How To Get Strong Motivation To Achieve Your Goal? How To Be A Shooting Star In The World? How To Develop The Time Management Skills? How To Solve Problems Of Life? How To Develop An Organisation? How To Pursue Excellence? How Multitasking Costs Heavily? How To Battle And Win Against Heavy Odds? How To Have An Extra Edge? How Self Discipline Enables Us To Realise Our Goal? How To Live An Excuse-Free Life? How To Make A Good Impression On Others? How To Deal With Self Centred And Egotistic People? How To Give A Proper Direction To Your Life And Your Profession? How To Overcome Laziness In Our Life And Work? How Not To Forget Things? How To Improve Your Memory? How To Achieve Your Goal? How To Resolve Your Problems? How To Make History Every Day? How Team Work Leads To Astonishing Performance? How To Get The Best Of Your Time? How To Become What You Want To Become? How To Have A Progressive And Constructive Routine?
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How To Transform Dream Into Reality?
Satisfaction and ventures in life lie in doing your best and enjoy what you wish to do or are engaged in doing. Some people just do enough to get by. It would not do as all life’s prizes are earmarked for those who do their best and not just good enough. Being the best means that you have to be better than the number two. Quite often, we forget that being the best, means you leave all others behind.
We all want to be the best. The trouble arises when a vast majority of people are just satisfied with much lower ranking like the 2nd, 3rd, 4th and do. Being the best means that you can challenge anybody achieve anything in your life and have the nerve to do anything in your chosen field. Our motto should be to become and be the best and nothing else.
Being financially well off is a reward for our achievement. But they follow our triumphs and not before it. Nobody can do it, all by himself or herself or transform a great idea into a reality. First of all, we need to assemble a first rate team to translate any of our intents into a reality. However, great an idea it might be just dreaming about not transforming it into a reality is both pointless and fruitless. It is this ability to successfully execute any idea which separates the dreamers from the doer.
The real problem is that we expect things to fall into our lap without working for them. Nothing is free in life and we have to pay the price in the form of dedication and hard work. The biggest irony is that we all want first-rate things of life without paying the price. Most people work without an aim and so live a hum-drum life.
I have gone around our country and addressed numerous meetings and attended discussions with the students and others. Whenever I have inquired from individuals about their goals or aim in life most of them reply is to get a good job. But what that job should be whether a civil service or in any other organisations, nobody is clear as they have no goal.
I tell them that unless they know where they want to go, how will they reach there? Last week I met a student of 10 th class and asked about his aspiration. He fumbled and said, “Anything good”.
First, you have to decide as to what you want to do as well as why and what rewards you want to get. I read an interesting story where a person kept on praying to God asking for promotion, prosperity and the top most position in his organisation. God ultimately appeared and said that “ Take anything, My good Man but pay the Price.” The price asked for was in the form of enthusiasm, ardour and devotion to his work.
The impediment arises in the sense that we take the easier course and not of steadfastness to our commitments. There are no shortcuts to any place or goal worth going or achieving. Sticking to your goals entails denying yourself the entertainment either on TV or Cinema or gossiping or indulging idle chit chat and not focussing on what matters to you most.
I have realised that time in life is not only short but limited. For example in my case in search of new ideas or subjects for writing, I go through five English newspapers and read religious books of all religions turn by turn. It takes about 3 hours and one hour for body massage from a masseur and one hour of exercising for trying to keep fit. About eight to nine hours go for resting and sleeping. Another three hours are required for twice bathing and eating three meals, apart from morning and evening tea plus a cup of coffee at about mid day.
Another one hour goes for answering the phone calls and watching the news on TV. Any outing for shopping or even petty purchases takes another two hours. There are demands on my time by the visitors and TV appearances that can take about two hours.
For case in point when I was working on this article there was a phone call from the security at 9 PM that there was somebody who wanted to meet me to give me some invitation card. I have made it an unwritten rule that I would meet people only by fixing prior appointments. The visitors in our country do not bother about other’s convenience but their own. I have seen visitors coming to see me at 6 AM and also at 11PM. This kind of approach does not suit me. I have apprised my Private Secretary to apprise such people my unavailability.
By the above approach I by no stretch of imagination intend to be rude but it is to save my time for doing my writing work. It is a gentle reminder to such visitors to respect my time as I do not drop into anybody’s