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It happens to the best of us. On a day like any other, you look in the mirror and find a cranky, worn-out, middle-aged woman staring back at you. A woman who is firmly strapped into a giant pair of GRANNY PANTIES.

Yes, aging is inevitable, but looking, and acting, like your grandma is not. So join Mary Fran Bontempo and learn a new set of Commandments that will enable you to avoid the Granny Panties and love life in the middle years. You'll laugh, learn a few things and with any luck, bid a permanent goodbye to GRANNY PANTIES and the old hag in the mirror!

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Publié par	eBookIt.com
Date de parution	21 février 2013
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9781456609139
Langue	English

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“Two Thongs Up!”
“Mary Fran Bontempo gets it. Women want the truth. Being married, being a mother, being middle-aged stinks some days. That’s the truth. And as told by Mary Fran makes for some very funny copy. Brava!”
~ Kate Fratti , National Society of Newspaper Columnists Humor Column Award Winner; 2012 A. P. Managing Editors Award Winner, 2011 Keystone Press Award Winner.

"What an awesome and inspiring mom who has figured out the way AWAY from the Granny Panties aisle! I myself am in my mid 30s and EVERYTHING Mary Fran wrote struck a chord with me. I laughed out loud! Great writer-hysterical interviewee. Loved having a REAL MOM on Real Mom Radio and I loved this book!"
~ Joey Fortman , Founder: Real Mom Media www.RealMomMedia.com ; Host: Real Mom Radio

It happens to the best of us. On a day like any other, you look in the mirror and find a cranky, worn-out, middle-aged woman staring back at you. A woman who is firmly strapped into a giant pair of GRANNY PANTIES.
Yes, aging is inevitable, but looking, and acting, like your grandma is not. So join Mary Fran Bontempo and learn a new set of Commandments that will enable you to avoid the Granny Panties and love life in the middle years. You’ll laugh, learn a few things and with any luck, bid a permanent goodbye to GRANNY PANTIES and the old hag in the mirror!

Not Ready For Granny Panties

The 10 11 Commandments for Avoiding Granny Panties

By: Mary Fran Bontempo

With Illustrations by
Pat Achilles

Not Ready for Granny Panties
The 10 11 Commandments for Avoiding Granny Panties
by Mary Fran Bontempo
© 2012 Mary Fran Bontempo
Illustrations © 2012 Pat Achilles
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About Not Ready For Granny Panties –The Blog
Several years ago, I found myself surfing the internet in search of a place where I could find content geared towards me—a middle-aged woman who didn’t feel, or particularly want to act, middle-aged. I was looking for fun stuff, interesting stuff that wasn’t trying to “inspire” me, jam a message down my throat or remind me of the endless array of physical ailments and their “solutions” that came with aging.
In fact, I wanted to avoid the term “aging” at all costs. If I needed to be reminded that I was no longer 20, all I had to do was look in a mirror. Reading about it ad nauseam on the internet was not on my “to do” list.
I also was looking for a site that wouldn’t give me a migraine with a thousand links on which to click, fourteen drop down menu items per page heading and a dizzying array of things that flashed, beeped or talked to me without any initiation on my part. (Just try and find the stop button on those videos that start automatically.)
You know what? The pickins were mighty slim. So I decided to start my own site, a place where women like me could go and just have a few minutes of fun every day. A place where I could talk about things that made me laugh, as well as movies, food, fashion and anything else that just made me feel good.
That’s how the blog, Not Ready For Granny Panties, was born. Along with the help of some really smart, wonderful women (fellow bloggers and friends Pat Achilles, Chrysa Smith and Carmen Ferreiro-Esteban), I developed a site ( www.notreadyforgrannypanties.com ) just for us—and for you.
Girls just wanna have fun, and we NRFGP bloggers realized through sharing with readers that none of us was ready to put on the big bloomers and consign ourselves to Granny Panties, either literal or figurative. As we brought our take on life to NRFGP , we realized that there was more to say, about life in the middle and how we can live it to the fullest as the fabulous, glorious creatures we are.
This book is the beginning of that “more to say.” I’m certain other things will follow, as I’ve never been known to let anything go gently. But I also think that at this point, gentle isn’t going to get me, or you, where I want to go, which is as far away from a pair of Granny Panties as possible.
So after you’ve finished the book, remember to stick with us and check out the blog at www.notreadyforgrannypanties.com every day for a daily dose of fun and to celebrate life in the middle with “girls” just like you!

For Dave, David, Laura and Megan,
who inspire me every day.

Introduction
It happens to the best of us.
One particular day, a day that starts like any other, you look in the mirror and see someone else staring back at you.
She looks sort of familiar, but you don’t quite recognize her, until it hits you with such force that your knees buckle and you think you’re going to throw up.
You are staring at a cranky, worn-out woman who looks far older than her years. A woman who looks like fun has become a four-letter word. A woman who looks like (get out a paper bag before you hyperventilate) your grandmother and happens to be you.
Maybe it’s the gray hairs seizing control of your head. Perhaps it’s the wardrobe that has devolved into a uniform of t-shirts and sweats accompanied by ratty gym shoes and topped off by a pilled cardigan. It might be the lines on your face that suddenly remind you of a roadmap to Hell.
But more likely, it’s just a feeling, of invisible, gnarled hands clutching at you and trying to wedge you firmly and completely into a pair of…GRANNY PANTIES.
Actually, you might already be wearing Granny Panties, both literally and figuratively. Literal Granny Panties are just that—panties that your granny would wear. You know the ones; they cover your entire butt, half of your thighs and rise up to just beneath your boobs. That’s a horror story in itself, but it’s not what we’re here to talk about.
We’re here to talk about the figurative Granny Panties, the ones which are as much a state of mind as a pair of oversized bloomers. The Granny Panties that keep us from being, and having, FUN.
Women of a certain age are like the Lost Boys from Peter Pan, only not boys and a lot older. Once we hit life’s middle ground, society starts to ignore us, occasionally swatting at us like a swarm of annoying gnats hovering on a sweaty summer afternoon.
We’re the Lost Women, the ones who’ve crossed over into marketing “no man’s (or woman’s) land,” having just exited the golden 18-49 year old demographic. We’re the women who don’t care what a “tweet” is. The ladies who have spent so much time taking care of everyone else that we’ve forgotten how to take care of ourselves. The women who feel like we’re being left behind. And in some ways, we are.
America’s fascination with youth has really thrown us under the bus. (It doesn’t help that more than a few of us look like we’ve been run over by a bus. Really, ladies, put on some lip gloss.) Society courts youth. When we cross that line into, well, let’s call it, “non-youth,” we land on the Island of Misfit Toys, cast-offs in a world that no longer knows exactly what to do with us. We’re social and marketing pariahs, which is ironic as our entry into “non-youth” is precisely when we have both the time and money to indulge in things in which we’ve long been interested but haven’t had an extra moment to explore.
That’s why it’s so important to resist. To link arms with your hot flashing sisters and set fire to the notion that just because we’re a certain age, we’re irrelevant. You don’t have to be relegated to the sidelines of your own life. You don’t have to be ignored. And you don’t have to be forced into Granny Panties, morphing into a real-life version of the cartoon character, Maxine, and grumbling your way through your days. (Although adding some “Maxine Moxie” to your attitude can be a healthy addition to your behavioral repertoire.)
Women stuck in Granny Panties are caught in the rut of always taking care of someone else and believing their best years are behind them. It just isn’t so. At least it doesn’t have to be. Avoiding the dreaded Granny Panties doesn’t take a lot of time or money. It simply takes a willingness to invest in yourself, change your attitude and for God’s sake, throw out any shirt with an animal on it.
But it’s not all about appearance. Ultimately, being “Not Ready For Granny Panties” has little to do with face lifts, tummy tucks or dressing like your teenage daughter. It’s a whole lot easier than that. A few simple adjustments and some commitment to yourself, for a change, will lead you to a whole new world. A world in which every once in a while, you take center stage. Because you deserve it. Because you’ve earned it. And because you in Granny Panties is something no one, especially not you, wants to see.
Being Not Ready For Granny Panties is not about trying to deny your age. It’s about living, to borrow Oprah’s phrase, “your best life” at exactly the age you happen to be. It’s also about not letting that age define you in a negative way. Just because you’re over 50 doesn’t mean you can’t take up surfing. But please don’t wear a bikini while you do it. A little common sense (just a little) makes all the difference between being the kind of woman people look at and say, “I wish I were like her,” as opposed to “Thank God I’m not like her!”
The march of time is inevitable. We’ve always been aware that the years were passing, but it’s not until the fateful day when we see that barely recognizable woman staring back at us from the mirror that we know we’re on the verge of losing ourselves to Granny Panties. Yet the conclusion of time’s forward march—that you will end up feeling beat, bored, miserable and trapped in Granny Panties—is not inevitable by any means.
So come with me and learn a new