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Every girl is a beautiful creation, uniquely equipped by God to do His work in the world. But as girls are growing, changing, and making choices about the kinds of lives they will lead, they are bombarded with conflicting messages about what it means to be a woman. The media says one thing, boys say another, and friends seem obsessed with whatever is newest and coolest. As a result, girls too often hand their decisions over to those least qualified to make them.Into the breach steps Elizabeth George, bestselling author and beloved Bible teacher. With wisdom, gentleness, and tremendous grace, she guides tween girls ages 8 to 12 through the most challenging decisions they face, teaching them to let God-not the world-define who they are. Discussing such topics as attitude, friendships, crushes, parents, school, and avoiding bad situations, Elizabeth helps girls see that the very best choice of all is a choice to live within God's will.Perfect for individuals, small groups, and mentoring.

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Publié par	Harvest House Publishers, Inc.
Date de parution	01 septembre 2013
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9780736951234
Langue	English

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HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS
EUGENE, OREGON
Unless otherwise indicated, all Scripture quotations are from the Holy Bible, New International Version , NIV . Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011, by Biblica, Inc. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.com
Verses marked NASB are taken from the New American Standard Bible , 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. ( www.Lockman.org )
Verses marked NKJV are taken from the New King James Version. Copyright 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Cover by Dugan Design Group, Bloomington, Minnesota
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A GIRL S GUIDE TO MAKING REALLY GOOD CHOICES
Copyright 2013 by Elizabeth George
Published by Harvest House Publishers
Eugene, Oregon 97402
www.harvesthousepublishers.com
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
George, Elizabeth,
A girl s guide to making really good choices / Elizabeth George.
pages cm
ISBN 978-0-7369-5122-7 (pbk.)
ISBN 978-0-7369-5123-4 (eBook)
1. Girls-Conduct of life. 2. Girls-Religious life. 3. Choice (Psychology-Religious aspects-Christianity. 4. Decision making-Religious aspects-Christianity. I. Title.
BJ1651.G46 2013
248.8 2-dc23
2013014353
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It is with extreme delight that this book is lovingly dedicated to my four granddaughters, my girls :
Taylor Zaengle
Katie Seitz
Grace Seitz
Lily Seitz
It is such a joy to see the four of you loving God and desiring to make choices based on His Word. I love you, cherish you, and pray fervently for you.
Acknowledgments
For Barb Sherrill, vice president of marketing at Harvest House Publishers, a very special thank you! I ll never forget our publishing meeting when you poured out your heart, asking for a book for tween girls so the girls you teach in your preteen Sunday school class could have a special book to study, a book just for them. Barb, the result of your passion was my book A Girl After God s Own Heart . You knew the need which has now expanded to a second book, this book- A Girl s Guide to Making Really Good Choices . I thank you, and I m sure moms, grandmoms, aunts, and teachers around the globe are joining with me. Thank you for dedicating your time and your heart to the young girls who pass through your class at church.
Contents
Acknowledgments
1. You Have a Choice
2. Choosing to Get Up
3. Choosing to Read Your Bible
4. Choosing to Pray
5. Choosing Your Friends
6. Choosing What You Say and Don t Say
7. Choosing to Be Patient
8. Choosing a Happy Heart
9. Choosing to Be Faithful
10. Choosing to Trust God
1
You Have a Choice
H i there! I m your new friend, Elizabeth. And I am soooo excited to be talking with you about the many wonderful choices you get to make as a girl after God s own heart. I am really looking forward to being with you as you go through this important book that s just for you.
To help me illustrate some of the many choices you get to make, I will be sharing a few stories from the life of a girl your age named Megan. Her choices, both good and not so good, will give you and me lots to talk about.
But before we look at Megan s life and her choices, I want to talk to you for a moment. A great thing about being a girl your age is that you are now able to make some choices about yourself, your attitudes, your habits, your friends, and your hobbies and activities. You are in a fantastic stage of life where you can think, and study, and pray, and talk to others-all of which help you to make the choices God wants you to make about your time, your attitudes, and your activities.
Fun in God s Word!
As we begin putting together a guide for making really good choices, you already know that life is full of choices. In fact, you have made a choice to start reading this book! My prayer is that when you are finished, you will see how important your choices are, and how they affect your present daily life as well as your future.
Yes, life is full of choices. Right now there are a lot of people in your life-like your parents and teachers-who are making choices for you. For instance, you have no choice where you live, where you go to school, what you study, and maybe even when you have to go to bed. But whether others make them for you, or you make your own choices, it helps to know what is involved in making really good choices.
So let s see what God s Word, the Bible, says about choices. In each chapter, we will look at Bible verses and answer some questions about the important topic covered in the chapter. Our goal is to let God teach us about how to make really good choices. So go find your favorite pen or pencil and keep it handy for writing down your answers as you look at verses from the Bible. We are going to spell out C-H-O-I-C-E-S .
C hoices deal with your heart. There are lots of choices that you and girls like Megan can and will make for yourself. They are choices that deal with your heart, which then affect your attitudes and finally your actions. What do these verses say about your heart attitude?
Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it (Proverbs 4:23).
God s command:
Why?
A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart (Luke 6:45).
What happens to the things you store up in your heart?
If the things are good
If the things are evil
There are lots of choices that are left up to you. Do you realize how many choices you make by yourself every day? Being kind to others, especially at home, is your choice. So is deciding whether or not to gossip about another girl. So is choosing to share your things with your brother or sister. And that s making me think of a great choice you could make to help your younger brother or sister get dressed, find their shoes, and get buckled up in the car. And how about the choice to obey Mom and Dad the first time they ask you to do something?
On and on goes the long list of choices you get to make all by yourself. So the issue is not whether you are allowed to make choices: You are already making choices, with or without your parents input and approval. Wouldn t it be great to have a guide to help you know how to make the right choices? Not just good choices, or better choices, but the best choices? Read on!
H aving a plan helps you make good choices. Your choices for today started with the plans you made yesterday. For example, today you need to decide to set your alarm clock so it goes off tomorrow morning. And today you have to decide when you need to get up tomorrow so you can set your alarm for that time.
Think about what s going on in your life tomorrow. Do you have a class report due? Is your flute lesson after school? Is tomorrow pizza day at school or do you need to take a lunch? And do you need to study for that big test that s coming up next week? And don t forget to ask Mom what else is happening tomorrow so you can add that into your plan.
The plans of the diligent lead to profit (Proverbs 21:5).
What does this bit of Bible wisdom teach you about the value of making plans?
Do you want tomorrow to be profitable? Do you want to be successful tomorrow? Are you tired of forgetting to do important things? Then let s work on your plan for tomorrow! List what you know is happening tomorrow so you can start thinking about the choices you will need to make today:
O rder your choices with God in mind. I hope before you finish this book you realize how important it is to always be thinking about what God wants you to do. God wants to help you make the very best choices. Read on to discover how He helps you do this:
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God and it will be given to you (James 1:5).
According to this verse, what is the best way to get God s help and direction for the choices you must make?
What does God promise to do when you ask Him for wisdom regarding your choices?
Every day you have opportunities to make many, many choices. Don t forget to include God in them. When you must make a choice, whisper to God and ask for His help: God, what is the right thing to do? What do You want me to do?
I nfluence affects choices. What do I mean by influence ? When someone or something affects the choices you make, you are being influenced .
For example: Have you ever wanted a specific pair of shoes just because your best friend got that very same pair of shoes? Or, do you watch a certain TV show just because it s cool with the other girls at school? That s influence-your choices are shaped by what other people do.
This brings us to another fact about choices: Choices are never made without influence. You may not realize it, but you are constantly being influenced by other people and your feelings when you make your choices. Your family, your friends, and even your own fears and pride have a strong influence on what you choose to do or not do.
Therefore, it is important for you to have people around you who are a good influence on you. Here s what God says:
Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character (1 Co