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Publié par | Everest Media LLC |
Date de parution | 05 mai 2022 |
Nombre de lectures | 0 |
EAN13 | 9798822501201 |
Langue | English |
Poids de l'ouvrage | 1 Mo |
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Insights on Shefali Tsabary's Out of Control
Contents Insights from Chapter 1 Insights from Chapter 2 Insights from Chapter 3 Insights from Chapter 4 Insights from Chapter 5 Insights from Chapter 6 Insights from Chapter 7 Insights from Chapter 8 Insights from Chapter 9 Insights from Chapter 10 Insights from Chapter 11 Insights from Chapter 12 Insights from Chapter 13 Insights from Chapter 14 Insights from Chapter 15 Insights from Chapter 16 Insights from Chapter 17 Insights from Chapter 18 Insights from Chapter 19 Insights from Chapter 20 Insights from Chapter 21 Insights from Chapter 22 Insights from Chapter 23 Insights from Chapter 24 Insights from Chapter 25 Insights from Chapter 26 Insights from Chapter 27 Insights from Chapter 28 Insights from Chapter 29 Insights from Chapter 30 Insights from Chapter 31 Insights from Chapter 32 Insights from Chapter 33 Insights from Chapter 34 Insights from Chapter 35 Insights from Chapter 36
Insights from Chapter 1
#1
The prisoner-warden approach to parenting is when the parent is the warden, constantly watching the child’s actions. The child, in the role of prisoner, does something right or wrong, and the parent responds with either a reward or a punishment.
#2
When we discipline our children, we assume that they are inherently undisciplined and need to be civilized. But what we think of as discipline is actually detrimental and fails to produce the kind of behavior parents want.
#3
Because discipline seems to be related to the parent’s whims rather than something reasonable, it always triggers resentment in children. They may comply with our demands because we force them to do so, but they resent us as the messenger.
Insights from Chapter 2
#1
Parents who are constantly on edge with their children’s behavior often end up losing their temper and disciplining them. But when their children don’t do what they want, they don’t know how to handle it other than by disciplining them.
#2
We are all slaves to our past, and our children can bring this out in us. We may not remember the specific events that imprinted us, but they still drive us at a subconscious level until we face them and resolve the emotions surrounding them.
#3
Every conflict in our lives is a result of our childhood experiences. We are all just children acting out, and we parent our children as if they were our own.
#4
The need to dominate is what discipline is all about, and this domination is responsible for much of the emotional distress that has characterized our species for eons.