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To help you choose a dildo, answer these questions.(More information inside...)Use your answers to these questions to help you choose a dildo that will best meet your unique comfort needs and pleasure desires. Although some people choose to share their dildos and cover them with condoms, most people find that they prefer certain shapes or materials and want to have a dildo of their very own. Having TWO dildos for Dildosdifferent purposes (or partners) is OK, too!1. How many fingers do you like having inside of you when you’re aroused ? ____ fingers 2. What length would you prefer?~why to use a dildoLonger: I want something easy to hold onto, with extra length I can choose whether or not to insert fully.Medium long: something in the middle is just right. Shorter: I dislike deep penetration, and know that I will not need the extra length to hold on to. ~how to choose a dildo 3. Will you be using it for thrusting, filling, or internal massage? that’s right for youThrusting (consider a silicone dildo with a moderate to firm consistency)Filling, and I prefer softer material (consider a flexible material such as soft silicone or elastomer)efer firmer material (consider a firm silicone, lucite, glass, wood, or stainless steel dildo)Internal massage (consider a smooth, hard material such as lucite, glass, wood, or stainless steel)4. Do you want lots of friction, or not as much friction?
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Dildos
~why to use a dildo
~how to choose a dildo
that’s right for you
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To help you choose a dildo, answer these questions.
(More information inside...)
Use your answers to these questions to help you choose a dildo that will best meet your unique comfort needs and
pleasure desires. Although some people choose to share their dildos and cover them with condoms, most people
find that they prefer certain shapes or materials and want to have a dildo of their very own. Having TWO dildos for
different purposes (or partners) is OK, too!
1. How many fingers do you like having inside of you when you’re aroused ?
____ fingers
2.
What length would you prefer?
Longer: I want something easy to hold onto, with extra length I can choose whether or not to insert fully.
Medium long: something in the middle is just right.
Shorter: I dislike deep penetration, and know that I will not need the extra length to hold on to.
3.
Will you be using it for thrusting, filling, or internal massage?
Thrusting (consider a silicone dildo with a moderate to firm consistency)
Filling, and I prefer softer material (consider a flexible material such as soft silicone or elastomer)
Filling, and I prefer firmer material (consider a firm silicone, lucite, glass, wood, or stainless steel dildo)
Internal massage (consider a smooth, hard material such as lucite, glass, wood, or stainless steel)
4.
Do you want lots of friction, or not as much friction?
Lots, please (choose a more textured, ridged, or bumpy shape made from silicone)
Not so much (choose a smooth surfaced dildo, and consider a low-friction material like lucite, glass or stainless steel)
5. Will you be using it vaginally, anally, or both?
Vaginally (you can choose any style)
Anally (choose a dildo with a flared base, and consider something with a smooth, straight shape)
Both (be sure to cover it with condoms to avoid transferring bacteria from the rectum to the vagina)
6.
Do you want G-spot/T-zone or prostate stimulation?
Yes, G-spot/T-zone stimulation (choose something at least 4” long with a curve at the tip)
Yes, prostate stimulation (consider a curved toy with a flared base, or any of the Aneros prostate massagers)
Neither (pick something shorter and/or straighter)
Maybe (experimentation is the mother of satisfaction)
7.
Will it be hand-held or used in a harness?
Hand-held (although flared bases are easier to hold onto, you can choose any shape.)
Harness (choose a dildo with a flared base so that it can attach to a harness, and consider a longer dildo)
Both (a flared base dildo will keep your options open)
8.
Do you want all of your accessories to match?
You choose! It’s your toy collection.
Dear Dr. Myrtle,
I’m a little curious about dildos. I’ve heard
of them, but I don’t really understand
why someone would want to use one.
Dear Sex Counselor,
I’m thinking about getting a dildo, but I don’t know
how to choose one. There are so many shapes and sizes
and colors … how do I know which one is right for me?
Dildos are the oldest sex toys known to humans, with
the earliest on record dating back to 5000 BC. Dildos
are available in many shapes and sizes because people’s
desires come in many shapes and sizes. Although gener
-
ally used for vaginal penetration, dildos can also be used
for anal or oral penetration. All dildos can be hand-held,
but some are especially designed to be held on the body
(or a chair) by a harness. (For more information, see
our
How to Choose a Harness
brochure).
Here are some ways that people use dildos:
• Women use dildos during self-pleasuring when they
want the feeling of vaginal penetration.
• Women and men use dildos for anal penetration
during self-pleasuring.
• Women use dildos to penetrate female or male
partners.
• Women use dildos to therapeutically massage their
vaginal walls, to keep them healthy, or bring them
back to health.
• Men use dildos with female or male partners to
provide penetration independent of an erection.
We generally recommend silicone dildos because they
are flexible, easy to clean, nearly indestructible, and will
warm to body temperature as you use them (people
who are allergic to latex rubber can use silicone with-
out experiencing an allergic reaction). Lucite, glass,
wood and stainless steel dildos share many of the same
features as silicone, but are inflexible (which can be great
for directing firm stimulation right where you like it), and
warm more slowly.
We don’t sell or recommend plastic jelly dildos because
they are made with “phthalates”, which are chemicals
that are linked to cancer and reproductive problems For
more information about phthalates, please see our online
article,
IsYourToy Made of a Safe Material?
at:
To pick the dildo that’s right for you, consider the following
questions. You don’t have to know all the answers, but the
clearer you are about what you’re hoping for, the easier your
choice will be. Keep track of your answers—or someone
else’s, if you’re giving a gift—on the back flap of this brochure.
1. How many fingers do you like having inside of you
when you’re aroused? (This tells you what width you
enjoy most.)
For most people, the dildo’s width is more sexually important
than its length, because you can choose to insert the dildo to
whatever depth you find comfortable, but you can’t change
the toy’s width. If you’re in the store, compare the width of
your fingers to the demos on our shelves. If you’re shopping
online, you’ll notice that we provide a finger-width equivalent
as well as exact measurements in each description.
2. Which length will work best for you?
If you’re in doubt about which length might be right, consider
getting one a bit on the longer side—if it’s too long, you can
always choose not to insert it fully. Plus, a longer dildo can be
easier to hold onto during use.
3. Do you want thrusting, filling, or internal massage?
If you enjoy vigorous thrusting, you’ll need a dildo with a
moderate to firm consistency. Some dildos are soft and
squishy, making them comfortable for filling and slow move
-
ments, but they might bend too much with quick thrusting.
Other dildos, such as those made of glass, lucite, metal, and
wood, are inflexible, making them suitable for filling, slow
movements and massage, but not vigorous thrusting.
4. Will it be used vaginally, anally, or both?
If you are using a toy anally, make sure that it has a flared base
to keep it from getting lost in the colon. If you want a toy for
anal penetration that involves thrusting, look for something
smooth and straight—a toy with ridges or a large curve can
harm the sphincter with vigorous thrusting. If you plan to
use a toy both anally and vaginally, be sure to cover it with a
condom (an unlubricated condom for silicone toys) each time
to avoid transferring bacteria from the rectum to the vagina.
For more information, see our
AnalToy
brochure.
5. Do you want your vaginal opening and walls stimu-
lated a lot (lots of friction), or not (little friction)?
If you want a lot of stimulation, consider a dildo with ridges
or swirls along the shaft. Some silicone designs provide
strong sensations at the opening of the vagina when moved
in and out, as do some of the other deeply ridged options.
If you prefer less friction or have trouble with too much
sensitivity at the vaginal opening, consider a dildo with a
straighter shape, and/or a lower-friction material, such as
lucite, glass, or stainless steel.
6. Do you want G-spot or T-zone stimulation?
If so, choose a dildo with a slight curve designed to hit
those sensitive spots. If you don’t like G-spot or T-zone
stimulation, choose a dildo with very little curve. For more
information see our
T-zone and G-spot
brochure.
7. Do you want prostate stimulation?
If so, keep in mind that the rectum curves about 3-5 inches
into the body, so you’ll want a dildo that’s either curved or
flexible enough to bend around the curve in the rectum.
Another option would be the firm plastic Aneros toys,
which are specifically designed to massage the prostate,
but are not harness compatible. Make sure you choose
a toy with a flared base so that it does not get lost in the
colon. For more information, see our
Prostate
or
AnalToy
brochures.
8. Will it be hand-held or used in a harness?
A hand can control the depth of penetration pretty well; a
harness makes it more difficult to gauge how deeply you
are penetrating your partner. Women and men who dislike
deep penetration might want to use a shorter dildo. Keep
in mind, though, that if you use the dildo in a harness, you
will lose about half an inch of the dildo’s length, so size
accordingly. We recommend using the dildo in your hand
first, so you get a good sense of how deeply you and/or
your partner like to be penetrated. The person being
penetrated should communicate their desires and comfort
level with depth of penetration and amount of thrusting.
P.S. This is your toy!
Don’t be too concerned about what anyone else will think
if you buy a particular color, shape, or size. It’s your toy
and your pleasure—choose what
you
like!
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