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Your Daughter Needs Her Dad! The pressure on girls to grow up too fast is greater than ever. Building a strong connection with your daughter is one of the best ways to ensure she will grow up with a strong sense of self-esteem, confidence, and assurance of her worth in Christ. These eight creative activities are designed to help you spend quality time with your daughter and engage her in important discussions about romantic relationships, her identity in Christ, and her own self-worth. Youll also get good advice on how to communicate with your child effectively, even if you find it difficult to have meaningful conversations with her. Packed with helpful suggestions with and scriptural truth,8 Great Dates for Dads and Daughtershelp you reach out to your child and teach her lessons that will have a lasting impact on her life.

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Publié par	Harvest House Publishers
Date de parution	17 août 2021
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9780736981903
Langue	English
Poids de l'ouvrage	1 Mo

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8 Great Dates for Dads and Daughters
Copyright 2014 by Dannah Gresh
Published by Harvest House Publishers
Eugene, Oregon 97408
www.harvesthousepublishers.com
ISBN 978-0-7369-8189-7 (pbk.)
ISBN 978-0-7369-8190-3 (eBook)
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Gresh, Bob.
Talking with your daughter about understanding boys / Bob and Dannah Gresh pages cm.-(8 great dates for dads and daughters)
ISBN 978-0-7369-5534-8 (pbk.)
ISBN 978-0-7369-5535-5 (eBook)
1. Fathers and daughters-Religious aspects-Christianity. 2. Girls-Religious life. 3. Boys.
I. Title.
BV4529.17.G74 2014
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Dedication
To five of my favorite fathers
Jarrod Sechler
Wade Harris
Pat Sullivan
Jim Burtoft
Troy VanLiere
five guys I trust to call me a knucklehead when I act like one (one for each knuckle).
Watching their lives has made me a better father.
And to Dannah s dad and my dad, who love us like crazy.
-Bob
Thank You
T his book was a team effort. In the history of all Gresh books, none have ever taken so many people to pull it together. We were writing a book for dads that also needed to appeal to their daughters but would likely be bought by their wives. Need we say more? We ve done a lot of rewrites to get this right.
Terry Glaspey, LaRae Weikert, and Barb Sherrill from Harvest House Publishers originally saw the ministry value of creating an 8 Great Dates book for dads and daughters (even though we all know moms buy more books). They have a true heart for ministry and we love em. When we revised the book, Gene Skinner stepped in to guide us through the re-imagining.
Jarrod Sechler joined with me (Bob) for long brainstorming sessions and wrote some of the content. (You ll hear from Jarrod personally in the pages ahead.) Another of my friends, Jim Burtoft, gave us great ideas and great feedback. They are both true friends to me and my family. Every man needs someone to help carry the load when it is heavy, and these are two of the best dads I know. I m thankful they carried this one with me.
Suzanna D Souza was the editor for this project and also created a lot of the content. She kept us thinking like girls! (And with three dads working on the project, she was really outnumbered.) She was patient and excellent in all ways. Eileen King, our faithful ministry manager, joined with us to revise it when the write time came. (No typo there!)
Bob and Dannah Gresh
Contents
Dedication
Thank You
A Note from Bob
How This Works
A Dad s Hug
PART 1: DADS MATTER-NO MATTER WHAT THE WORLD SAYS
Chapter 1: Dads Run Deep
Chapter 2: Dads Are Not Optional-Your Girl Needs One
Chapter 3: How to Use This Book
PART 2: 8 GREAT DATES
Date #1: Mission Possible!
Date #2: Sugar and Spice and Everything Nice
Date #3: As You Wish
Date #4: Sticks and Stones (or the Italian Job )
Date #5: Natural Treasure
Date #6: How Does Your Garden Grow?
Date #7: Star Track-the Final Frontier
Date #8: Dress for Success
PART 3: OTHER GREAT STUFF
Father-Daughter Devotional Challenge
Ideas for Single Moms
Notes
Talk with Dad
A Note from Bob
C aution-this book is going to provide absolutely no spin.
It s amazing how political correctness intrudes into every aspect of our lives. It s even politically incorrect in enlightened circles to identify someone by such a limiting factor as male or female. Those in such circles see many more options.
We don t.
This book is written for dads and daughters. At times, it assumes that Mom and Dad are married. We believe that it s ideal (and biblical) for a man to marry one woman, raise kids, and be married lifelong.
We also know that we don t live in an ideal world. Family structures are so splintered today that we can t address all of them, and so we chose the father of the intact family to be the assumed reader of this book.
We have a huge heart for single moms, single dads, and splintered families. My heart breaks over parents who desperately need a godly male or female role model for their kids. (We have included a special section in this book for single moms.)
Customize the pronouns for your own situation, take what applies, and disregard stuff that doesn t match your family.
The role of women in the church and at home is a hot topic-and a complex one. Some women are girly-girls and some are tomboys, which makes things even more complicated. So
After much discussion (and rewriting), we decided that our model for womanhood was the mom of Proverbs 31. She was a mix of everything. (Her husband married well. So did I.)
Now, with that attempt to explain our approach in advance, let s go on some adventures together. Read on!
How This Works
By Bob
W e re dads.
We re different.
We have different parts. We have different styles than women.
Statistically, we don t read as much-80 percent of Christian books are for women and are read by women.
I ve made this book as easy to use as possible because your life is packed full of stuff, and I don t want to add any more weight (or aggravation) than necessary.
For years, moms have been using the 8 Great Dates books from True Girl to grow closer to their daughters. Almost all of those books point out that the relationship a dad has with his daughter informs how she responds to boys. (I recently cheered on a fellow dad when he said this publicly: Mess with me, that s bad. Mess with my wife, that s really going to be bad for you. Mess with my daughter-that s me being called to prison ministry from the inside! Of course he was joking sort of.) Here s a quick look at what s going to happen in the pages to come.
PART 1: DADS MATTER-NO MATTER WHAT THE WORLD SAYS
This is an introductory welcome to the idea of dating your daughter. We ll give you ideas on how to spend time with your girl while teaching her things she should know. Skim these chapters if you want. Don t skip them.
PART 2: 8 GREAT DATES
Check them out and you ll see that they re really easy to use. Each date has simple plans to do activities that will help you talk to your girl. Look, let s admit it s sometimes awkward to keep the conversation going-these dates will fix that.
PART 3: OTHER GREAT STUFF
This section is used on an as-needed basis. Other than the Talk with Dad pages for your daughter, you may not need much of it at all. But everything is explained as you get to it.
I think you ll enjoy this. Step up. Do it right. You ll make memories for a lifetime.
Now I ll introduce Dannah. She s been working with and researching girls for 20 years, and she s literally written the books on how they tick. Read the preface and the following chapters. You ll see why these years are the most important ones of your daughter s life. This short time will shape her values forever.
Bob
A Dad s Hug
By Dannah
I t was one of the saddest days of my life.
Bob and I had worn each other out. After attempts at counseling, we were still unyielded to the healing power of Christ. With the help of two pastors and a counselor who loved us and wanted to see us go the distance, we had decided to separate for three weeks. 1
I would go to my parents home in Pennsylvania.
He would stay at our home in Missouri.
I started my drive while the stormy morning was still dark-my tw