Looking Beyond the Mask, livre ebook

Interviews with women in cross-cultural marriages, offering a unique insight into Japanese life.

Interviews with women in cross-cultural marriages, offering a unique insight into Japanese life.

Looking Beyond the Mask focuses on the personal stories of the growing number of American women who-despite vast cultural differences, and sometimes because of them-are married to Japanese men. Although the problems encountered in such marriages are similar to those found in any union, there are cultural implications that can exacerbate almost any of them. Potential areas of conflict are examined, such as in-laws, customs and manners, values, living conditions, religion, communication, sex and gender, and raising children. The book deals with meeting such challenges and attempting to look beyond the cultural masks to see the real people behind them. The women in question stress the importance of commitment, a flexible attitude, a strong sense of identity, a support network, a sense of perspective, and a sense of humor. They also reveal the benefits of these marriages, including a greater appreciation for Japanese ways and the opportunity to continually grow and learn. Based on extensive research, the book provides a new look at Japan from the unique perspective of those American women most intimately involved with its culture.

Acknowledgments
Introduction
Part I. Beginnings
1. Love Stories
2. In-Laws
Part II. Culture Shock
3. Customs and Manners
4. Values
5. Living Conditions
6. Medical Matters
7. Religion
8. Communication
9. Sex and Gender
Part III. Children
10. Mother's Role
11. Being Different
Part IV. Meeting the Challenge
12. What It Takes
13. Can We Go Home Again?
14. The Gains
15. Looking Ahead
Conclusion
Notes
References
Index