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We all experience emotional pain--and even devastation--in our lives, but few of us know how to deal with it properly. Our unresolved pain accumulates deep within the recesses of our hearts, in a place Jimmy Evans calls the "hurt pocket." The more pain we accumulate, the more we are mentally, emotionally, and relationally crippled. But what if we could reach into that hurt pocket, confront our pain, and experience release and freedom?Jimmy Evans shows readers how to completely remove and resolve every negative event from their past that is compromising their present and keeping them from their God-given destiny. He helps readers forgive others and themselves and discover true inner peace.Perfect for individuals, as well as small groups and entire churches, When Life Hurts will help set people free from the pain of the past so they can live fully in the present and look forward to the future.

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Publié par	Baker Publishing Group
Date de parution	01 octobre 2013
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9781441244574
Langue	English
Poids de l'ouvrage	1 Mo

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© 2013 by Jimmy Evans
Published by Baker Books
a division of Baker Publishing Group
P.O. Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
www.bakerbooks.com
Ebook edition created 2013
Ebook corrections 02.26.2014
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means—for example, electronic, photocopy, recording—without the prior written permission of the publisher. The only exception is brief quotations in printed reviews.
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ISBN 978-1-4412-4457-4
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.com
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Published in association with the literary agency of Alive Communications, Inc., 7680 Goddard Street, Suite 200, Colorado Springs, CO 80920, www.alivecommunications.com .
To protect the privacy of those who have shared their stories with the author, some details and names have been changed.
“Pain is a natural part of human existence. But some wounds are so deep they impact how we live and who we are. Jimmy Evans shines a light on those dark, unhealthy places all while pointing readers toward God, the source of true healing.”
Dr. Tony Evans , senior pastor, Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship; president, The Urban Alternative
“Jimmy Evans teaches us the power of surrender in his new book When Life Hurts . His biblical and honest approach will help free us from past hurts and struggles as well as serve as an important tool to help others who have experienced wounding from their past. A must-read for everyone!”
Joni Lamb , cofounder, Daystar Television Network
“Life hurts and past wounds are sensitive topics. When I’m struggling with personal pain, I want to receive advice only from someone trustworthy who truly understands God’s heart. I can’t imagine anyone more trustworthy and more qualified than Jimmy to handle such a tender issue. When Life Hurts lovingly deals with all types of scarring experiences and speaks God’s truth into each and every one. Read this book with an open heart and receive his healing.”
Debbie Morris , executive pastor, Gateway Church in Dallas/Fort Worth; bestselling author, The Blessed Marriage and The Blessed Woman
“There is so much pain in this world. All of us have been affected by it in some way. Whether it’s loss, hurt, or rejection, the pain we experience is often unresolved. Jimmy Evans is a true father in the faith. He has written a powerful book that will bring you from a place of hurting to true healing in God.”
Stovall Weems , lead pastor, Celebration Church
“During our lifetime on this earth, every one of us will experience hurt, and sometimes we are hurt deeply. My husband, James, and I have felt this on occasions when people misunderstood our journey with Christ, the stands we have taken, and strong beliefs we hold. Never, however, have we encountered such anguish as with the recent passing of our youngest daughter, Robin. Our very close friend Jimmy Evans offers meaningful help to every one of us who has endured the indescribable pain of unexpected, deep hurt. In this book you will find help and healing for the deepest wounds in your heart. Thank you, Jimmy, for helping bind up broken hearts.”
Betty Robison , cohost, LIFE Today
“To a culture that says you can do and be anything if you set your mind to it, Jimmy Evans suggests a different path: that some hurts are impossible to escape by simply gritting your teeth and pressing on. Sometimes you need the healing hand of God. That hope is evident on every page of this book.”
Christine Caine , founder, The A21 Campaign; bestselling author, Undaunted
To my precious wife, Karen. You have been my best friend and devoted partner for over forty years. You have been long-suffering and faithful in the good times and bad. You have walked the pathway of healing with me as God has used you more than any other person to help heal the hurts of my past and minister his love to me. This book would not be possible without you.
Contents
Cover 1
Title Page 2
Copyright Page 3
Endorsements 4
Dedication 5
Foreword by Chris Hodges 9
Acknowledgments 11
1. Pictures of Pain 13
Part 1 The Hurt Pocket 23
2. Defining Moments 25
3. Inner Vows 35
4. When Hurt Hides 47
Part 2 The Hurt Whisperer 59
5. The Message in the Pain 61
6. Whispers of the Enemy 71
7. Clothed in Shame 85
8. Thoughts Held Captive 99
Part 3 The Hurt Redeemer 113
9. Come Out of Hiding 115
10. Do You Want to Be Well? 131
11. Lord of the Brokenhearted 143
12. Beauty for Ashes 155
Part 4 Breaking the Hurt Legacy 167
13. A Legacy of Pain 169
14. Breaking the Cycle 181
15. A Generational Blessing 191
Eight-Week Study Guide 205
About the Authors 235
Back Ads 237
Back Cover 239
Foreword
As a frequent traveler, I’m always fascinated by what others take with them and how they carry it. So many people lug around these huge suitcases and duffle bags, enormous purses, and overstuffed backpacks. It not only slows them down but also makes travel more difficult, always dragging stuff from place to place. So I’ve learned to travel light, which is exactly what this book will help you do.
No one intends to carry around so much baggage, but it happens to everyone. Your life starts off innocently enough. As a child, you enjoy playing make-believe, chasing one another outside, and swinging on the playground. Even if you encounter a bully or not-so-nice teacher, you’re still full of hope and idealism. You look forward to getting older and enjoying more of what’s ahead of you.
But then life’s path takes a detour and trouble starts interrupting your journey in ways you never saw coming. You face a devastating loss and suddenly things no longer look so simple and innocent. The world is no longer the place you thought it was. Life is not as fair as you had once hoped. You try to do the right things, but following the rules can’t guarantee you the security you so desperately crave.
So you make some bad choices, the kind with repercussions that don’t go away. Maybe it’s a habit that leads to an addiction. Maybe it’s hanging out with the wrong crowd or dating the wrong kind of person. Maybe it’s cutting corners at work. Maybe it’s settling for something that kills your dreams. Once you’re angry and hurt, though, you figure you might as well try to find pleasure anywhere you can.
Then other people in your life start doing things and saying things that hurt even more. Some of these experiences come from family members who say things that cut to the heart and leave wounds that just won’t go away. Others come from random people who seem intent on destroying your life. All of a sudden, you’ve got some baggage.
It’s usually not much at first—you know, just the carry-on type that you can wheel behind you or wear on your back. You think you can manage it, so you learn to compensate and just accept how it weighs you down. Then more stuff happens. And before you know it, there’s even more baggage.
And then you begin to think that this is just the way it will always be. You grow weary and ache from the burdens that seem to pile on you from every direction. With each step, your journey gets tougher, and you feel resigned to despair. Life weighs you down and crushes your spirit, and you become convinced that there’s no way out.
Sound familiar?
Well, now is the time for you to finally be free from all of the pain and baggage. Aren’t you ready to be free, to lighten your load and experience new joy and fresh peace? The answer is obviously “yes,” but the real question is “how?”
For me, the most liberating moment of any trip occurs when I realize I have nothing to carry through the airport terminal. Not only did I pack light, but I also checked my bags. You can do the same as you read this book.
In the pages that follow, my friend and fellow pastor Jimmy Evans will help you lighten the load you’ve accumulated over a lifetime. With his help, you’ll discover where your baggage came from and why you continue to carry so much of it around everywhere you go. More importantly, you’ll understand how you can let it go and walk in the freedom of God’s grace. Jesus said, “My yoke is easy and my burden is light” (Matt. 11:30). With biblical insight and practical wisdom, Jimmy will show you how to make this promise a reality.
Get ready. You’re in store for a faith-filled journey of hope and healing.
Godspeed, Chris Hodges Bestselling author of Fresh Air
Acknowledgments
This project has been a joy because of the quality people I have been privileged to work with. I want to thank Baker Books for believing in me and making this book possible. Jon Wilcox, Michael Cook, Ruth Anderson, Anna Scianna, and the entire team at Baker Books are the best.
This is the second book I have written with my collaborator, Frank Martin. Frank is the best writer I’ve ever worked with. He helped me focus, organize, and maximize the message of this book in a way I couldn’t have done without him.
Joel Kneedler and my friends at Alive Communications put me together with Frank and Baker Books. I will be forever grateful for their belief in me and their pr