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They say a good marriage is a lot of work--but Susie Davis says it can be a lot of fun. In Uncovered, Davis shares the secrets of understanding a husband's needs and meeting them using biblical wisdom, practical sense, and a bit of feminine charm. With wit and realistic advice, she shows women how to-understand the physical, emotional, social, and spiritual needs of their husbands-find lasting fulfillment through loving their man -maintain an enjoyable and stable relationship-prioritize their marriagesFocusing on areas such as sex, desire, money, dating, and self-image, Davis shows women how a happy and sexually satisfying marriage is not as much work as they might think. Each chapter also includes a section called The Male Room in which married men discuss their feelings about their wives and marriages.

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Publié par	Baker Publishing Group
Date de parution	01 mai 2010
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9781441212177
Langue	English

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2010 by Susie Davis
Published by Revell a division of Baker Publishing Group P.O. Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287 www.revellbooks.com
Ebook edition created 2010
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means-for example, electronic, photocopy, recording-without the prior written permission of the publisher. The only exception is brief quotations in printed reviews.
ISBN 978-1-4412-1217-7
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data is on file at the Library of Congress, Washington, DC.
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture is taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version . NIV . Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 by Biblica, Inc. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.com
Scripture marked AMP is taken from the Amplified Bible, Copyright 1954, 1958, 1962, 1964, 1965, 1987 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission.
Scripture marked CEV is taken from the Contemporary English Version 1991, 1992, 1995 by American Bible Society. Used by permission.
Scripture marked Message is taken from The Message by Eugene H. Peterson, copyright 1993, 1994, 1995, 2000, 2001, 2002. Used by permission of NavPress Publishing Group. All rights reserved.
Scripture marked NLT is taken from the Holy Bible , New Living Translation, copyright 1996, 2004. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
The internet addresses, email addresses, and phone numbers in this book are accurate at the time of publication. They are provided as a resource. Baker Publishing Group does not endorse them or vouch for their content or permanence.
To my husband, Will Davis Jr.- for twenty-five years of marriage . . . and for sharing all kinds of fabulous little secrets.
Contents

Acknowledgments
The Male Room Revealed: Responses from Real Men Who Love Their Wives
Introduction
1. Speed Sex: More Is Better and It Doesn t Have to Last Forever
2. Is Food the New Sex? How Thinking Like a Man Can Create a Craving
3. Superman: Letting Your Husband Man Up
4. Get Over Your Naked Self: You Won t Love Sharing What You Loathe
5. Are You Laughing or Crying? How a Happy Heart Makes a Happy Marriage
6. Materialism and the Man: When the Stuff Whores Steal Your Marriage
7. Marriage and Multitasking: Developing a One-Track Mind
8. Why Saying Thanks Is a Big Deal: Underappreciation and Adultery
9. From Roommate to Playmate: Does Your Husband Have a Girlfriend?
10. The Difference between Cats and Dogs: And Other Marital Mysteries
11. The Recipe for a Successful Marriage: Loving the One You Love
Conclusion
Notes
Acknowledgments

Thanks to . . . Will Davis Jr.-my husband and my best friend Will III, Emily, and Sara-amazing people who just happen to be my kids Dee Ehlers-editor and friend extraordinaire Lynn Walker, Christy May, Jodi Allen, Kalli Smith, Erin Aspegren, Julie Washington, Carol Young, Kristi Vaught, Liz Benigno, Melissa Patterson, Stephanie Lucke, Jeanne Crosno, Joni and Kevin Kendrick, Gary Sinclair, Todd Lewis, Richard Hasting, Mike Helton, Gary Walsh, Tony Colvin, and Blake Ehlers-for wisdom, humor, and authenticity Bill Jensen-for merciless teasing, expounding, and agenting Revell-my marvelous publisher led by the fabulous Baker boys Lonnie Hull DuPont-for believing in a girl, a book, and a title that occasionally colors outside the lines Claudia Marsh-for being an outstanding publicist, dining with us on the Riverwalk, and putting us on the whiteboard Deonne Beron-for carting us around Michigan in the freezing cold and introducing me to the best chai tea latte on the planet Carmen Pease, Twila Bennett, Janelle Mahlmann-for endless marketing of Davis books Barb Barnes-for kind, light editing that makes me smile
The Male Room Revealed
RESPONSES FROM REAL MEN WHO LOVE THEIR WIVES

The Male Room * section of the book is fairly simple. Since much of what I am writing about is in regard to what men think or say, I figured it would be more compelling if I got responses from real, live men. I knew that if I had actual men respond to the chapter themes, that would increase your likelihood of believing and agreeing to go along with my suggestions.
What I did was create a team of guys. These guys love their wives and honor their marriages. They keep lust in check and don t feed on pornography. And besides that, they ve all been married at least a decade. They re businessmen: contractors, salesmen, CEOs, and ministers. They represent your everyman-the guy next door.
So here s how it worked: After I finished writing each chapter, I sent several of the married men some questions. I didn t let them read the chapters-so they had no idea what I had written-I simply sent them the questions cold. And then they answered via email. The very first round was for the chapter titled Is Food the New Sex? and the responses I got were so fabulous. The men were incredibly honest in their responses. But when the time came for me to see them, they were funny about letting me read what they had written. This is an email I got from one of the guys:
Susie,
Is this a joke? Are you secretly trying to figure out if your husband is the only one that thinks about sex all the time? I must say the excuse of writing a book is a very creative way to find out. See my answers below.
You re not gonna kick me out of the church for answering honestly are you?
What s not to love about that? They are such a great group of guys.
Back to the explanation. Their answers are uncut. I didn t pretty them up or move the sentences around. The only thing I corrected, if need be, was the grammar or spelling. The answers you read at the end of the chapters are the raw, real responses from those men. Men whom I think you will grow to appreciate-for their honesty is vulnerable. And what they have to say is touching. But mainly, it s just incredibly help-ful. Some of their responses may be just what your husband would say if he had been asked.
I m thinking that their responses will ignite your curiosity about what your husband thinks about these issues. And I m hoping that perhaps you ll enter into dialogue with him about what you re reading. But mostly, I m praying that you ll read this book and be drawn with an irresistible, undeniable compulsion to love your husband body and soul. That you ll become the wife you know your man needs, and that you ll have the marriage you ve always dreamed of-with the man of your dreams.
* Names have been changed to protect the innocent! If I used their real names here, you d be stalking them either in love or hate-and I just couldn t do that to them, bless their sweet, manly hearts!
Introduction

My garage is a mess. Cobwebs hang dutifully in the corners, boxes and bags of who knows what hide behind bikes, and a dusty old refrigerator sits sullen and quiet. I know my garage is dirty. I know that it needs organizing and sanitizing. Every day that I walk through it to get in my car, it begs for my immediate attention.
So I am going to pray about it. And after I pray about it, I am going to google garage organization and cleanliness. Then I ll probably participate in a neighborhood support group for people like me who have trouble with their garages too. I am certain that is the best way to get to the bottom of my issues with my garage.
Ridiculous, right? And yet, in many ways, that is precisely how we approach a marriage that s become messy. We recognize that our marriage needs attention and send up an SOS prayer. We read online articles that delve into the issues married couples face. And sometimes, we even join a self-help group and listen to others expound on their problems.
Now don t get me wrong, I believe there is a place for prayer, research, and therapy (been there, done that, and reaped the benefit). It s just that I think the truth is that while many of us are motivated to better our ho-hum marriages, we spend all our time and energy becoming experts on the subject without actually ever doing anything .
Never before have we had more information at our fingertips, and nonetheless, we are still confounded. We live in the age of information, yet that has done little to fix some of our most stubborn cultural problems-debt, obesity, divorce.
This is a book designed to help you do something about your marriage. Tucked away in the pages are surefire tips to fix your marriage. Today. As a matter of fact, I think no matter what the state of your marriage, you can quick fix it and turn it into something wonderful with that man you love.
Now if you re like most people, something inside of you is railing against the idea that there is a quick fix for something as complex as a marriage relationship. And while it is true there are some issues that take professional guidance, such as a marriage fraught by sexual addiction or abuse, the majority of marriages just need a kick-start in the right direction. If you are committed to your marriage and still feel even occasional tenderness toward your spouse, this is just the book for you. As a matter of fact, if you read and implement only half of the suggestions, I can promise you ll have a happier marriage.
So before you read even one more word, I ask you to pledge that you will do at least half of the suggestions in this book . (Honestly, if you ll just add a little speed sex to your marriage you could probably stop at that one.) But even if you can t promise now, please know that because you haven t closed this book yet and you are reading this intro-you are already that much closer to actually doing something to improve your marriage.
And all you need to do right now is just turn the page- that will give you the jump-start you need to improve your relationship with the most important person in your life.
But you ll never know until you try . . .
1 Speed Sex
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