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The Bible calls us to not be afraid, and of course we all want to live without fear. But how?Using her own story as a catalyst, Maria Furlough shows you how to overcome fear for good. She calls you to make a list of your fears, to choose to bring those fears to God rather than acting on them, and to trust God with the future. She shows how when we give God full control over our lives, choosing his sovereignty over our own ability, we can break the cycle of fear, grow through suffering, and trust God to fulfill his promises of protection and peace.

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Publié par	Baker Publishing Group
Date de parution	15 juin 2021
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9781493431373
Langue	English
Poids de l'ouvrage	1 Mo

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Endorsements
“From the moment Maria called and told me her deepest fear was coming true, I wondered how her life would change. Maria lived through her fear with a relatable humanity while releasing control, uncovering a life of true peace, and writing it all down along the way in this fear-to-freedom handbook. Grab a fresh set of highlighters—you’re going to need them.”
Myquillyn Smith , author of The Nesting Place
“When fear rises up, our first instinct may be to either completely avoid it or fall victim to worst-case scenarios. Maria Furlough offers an alternative, issuing the invitation to break the fear cycle altogether in this gentle and deeply personal book.”
Emily P. Freeman , author of Simply Tuesday
“Fear finds its paralyzing power in its ability to mentally transport us into imaginary places of pain where the reality of God’s presence, power, and provision never show up. Maria Furlough has written a helpful book filled with practical and real-life wisdom for breaking the cycle of fear and faithfully overcoming the harsher realities of life in a painful and broken world.”
Larry Osborne , pastor, North Coast Church, and author
“If you’ve ever had fear that kept you from freedom (and who among us hasn’t?), then you have a friend in Maria Furlough. Drawing deeply from her own experience and with vulnerability and courage, Maria encourages us to step forward confidently in Christ. Her story will inspire you; her biblical knowledge and practical wisdom will help you break the fear cycle and move forward into peace. I couldn’t put this book down, and I look forward to sharing it with everyone I know who struggles with fear and needs hope for a better future!”
Nicole Unice , pastor, counselor, and author of Brave Enough
“I met Maria Furlough in the middle of my fear. I was speaking at an event near her home. She knew I was battling anxiety so she came to me and prayed the words of Jesus over me: ‘Fear not.’ That’s the woman who is guiding you through this journey. She’s someone who shows up to whisper ‘fear not’ in your ear so you can be the woman God created you to be. In this book, Maria offers welcome wisdom—earned in the trenches—that will help you break the fear cycle and find the peace your heart longs for.”
Jennifer Dukes Lee , author of The Happiness Dare and Love Idol
“Maria is a trustworthy spiritual guide to so many people in our church, where she worships and serves. If fear and anxiety are unwelcome parts of your life, don’t read this book. Instead, open your life up to Maria’s insightful mentorship by prayerfully interacting with these pages. Her story is both heart-wrenching and heart-freeing. With remarkable insight, she invites us to join her in the peaceful way of life Jesus offers to all.”
Dr. Mike Moses , lead pastor, Lake Forest Church, Charlotte, NC; president, Evangelical Presbyterian denomination, 2015; adjunct faculty, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary
“When we’re afraid, we don’t need an optimist to deny our worries or a disciplinarian to condemn our anxiety; we need a truth-telling friend who points us to our Savior. Maria Furlough is that friend. In Breaking Free from Fear , she acknowledges our greatest fears and lovingly guides us through God’s Word to find our peace and confidence in the Lord.”
Marissa Henley , author of Loving Your Friend Through Cancer
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Title Page
Copyright Page
© 2018 by Maria Furlough
Published by Revell
a division of Baker Publishing Group
PO Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
www.revellbooks.com
Spire edition published 2021
ISBN 978-0-8007-4009-2
eISBN 978-1-4934-3137-3
Previously published in 2018 under the title Breaking the Fear Cycle
Ebook edition created 2021
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means—for example, electronic, photocopy, recording—without the prior written permission of the publisher. The only exception is brief quotations in printed reviews.
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Dedication
To
My Jesus
My Dave
My sweet, sweet
Fait h , Davi d , Aaro n , Gideo n , and Sammy
Contents
Cover 1
Endorsements 2
Half Title Page 5
Title Page 7
Copyright Page 8
Dedication 9
1. Your Greatest Fear 13
2. You Do Have a Choice 27
3. Fear and Future Telling 41
4. I Will Trust 53
5. Wrestling Matches with God 69
6. Believing in the Bible’s View of Suffering 87
7. Praying Faith-Filled Prayers, Not Fear-Filled Pleas 105
8. God’s Promises of Protection 123
9. Taking Jesus Up on His Offer of Peace 143
10. Living Differently, in Confidence 159
11. The Story of You 173
Leader’s Guide 187
Appendix: In Case of an Emergency: Bible Verses to Post around Your Life 195
Acknowledgments 199
Notes 203
About the Author 205
Back Ads 207
Back Cover 210
1 Your G reatest Fear
What is your greatest fear?
You know the one—the one that keeps you up at night, wide awake, unable to fall asleep because anxious thoughts of it coming true swirl around in your brain.
What is your deepest fear?
You know the kind—the kind of fear that pops into your mind and then never leaves. The kind of fear that starts with a small, itty-bitty idea and then grows into a full-blown panic attack because you actually have begun to believe that the fear is going to come true.
Let’s be completely honest. If you are anything like me, you don’t even want to take the chance of naming your fear out loud. Why? Well, because there is a tiny voice inside of you that tells you if you say it out loud, you just might jinx yourself. God fearing, God trusting, and God believing though you are, you will not take any chances when it comes to your greatest fear. Your greatest fear is your holy grail. It’s yours to keep and obsess over, and you feel like there is simply nothing you can do about it.
Your fear just is. It’s part of you, and you have come to accept it. Live with it. Cope with it.
I lived there once too. I lived so entrenched in fear that it became a driving force in my life without me even realizing it. Fear seeped into my relationships, my parenting, my marriage, and my home, and it found such a comfortable place in my days that I stopped fighting it.
This was me: I was the new mom, driving across town to get a much-needed nap at Grandma and Grandpa’s house. It was a joyous time. With a healthy baby girl in tow, I drove and thanked God for the gift of her life. I was a mom! A real mom! And it felt like heaven on earth. Then it happened. My internal dialogue went something like this:
God! Thank you so much for my daughter, Faith. I love her so much, more than I thought I could love!
Wait.
I love her so much.
I love her too much.
What would I ever do if I lost her?
Wait. What would I do if I got in a car accident?
Wait. I’m driving over a bridge. What would happen if I got into a car accident and flew off this bridge into that body of water? How would I save her? What would I do?
I can’t lose her. I love her too much! I would need to save her.
Then I would go home and do what any reasonable Christ-following woman would do. I would get on Biblegateway.com and search for “verse that promises I will never drive off a bridge with my baby in the back seat.”
Ah, thank goodness, there it is! “Nothing bad will ever happen to you, your sweet baby, or any future children or loved ones. I pinkie promise. Thus sayeth the Lord.” That’s straight from the book of Keep Dreaming, Maria .
It’s not there! God’s Word is good . It is holy, reliable, powerful, mysterious, and righteous, and there are no promises that tell me my worst fears will not come true. None, nada, zip! God does not promise us a pain-free existence.
How, then, can I convince my brain not to fear the utter destruction of everyone and everything I hold near and dear? Since the Bible doesn’t ensure me that these things will not happen, and I could not find the Bible verse I was looking for, I went to my second best resource: Google.
Dear Google, what do I do if I drive off a bridge with my one-month-old baby in the back seat? Sincerely yours, Maria.
First, Google says to stay calm (awesome). Then Google says to immediately roll down the windows because that will be your escape route, and soon the water will short-circuit the electricity in most makes and models. Then, while the car is filling up with water, remove your baby from the car seat. After the car is fully submerged, escape through the window with your baby and swim to safety.
There. That feels a little better. Another Band-Aid of control placed over my fear to make me feel a little less anxious. Another case of trying to logically, statistically, and informationally appease my fear instead of diving straight into the heart of the matter.
My fears kept coming. They would come in multiple forms, and my anxious brain would come up with creative ways for my worst fears to come true. Besides driving off bridges, fears would come in the form of
tsunamis (no, I don’t live on the coast, but apparently that doesn’t matter)
cancer
brain-eating bacteria
choking
poisoning
kidnapping
regular, non-driving-off-bridges car accidents
terrorist attack
loss of a baby
nuclear destruction
I went on, half tackling every obsessive fear that popped into my mind. Then it happened.
I was going on with my every