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09 juillet 2019
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9781684423156
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English
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1 Mo
This newly updated and expanded edition of Desperately Seeking Self; Second Edition offers a unique, spiritually-centered approach that emphasizes the how of healing from an eating disorder. It guides readers on a journey inward, showing them how to connect with their true self and from there, heal their eating disorder and transforms their lives.
How do you look within when an eating disorder has filled you up with pain? Desperately Seeking Self; Second Edition speaks directly to this need. Its message is simple, gentle and accessible, resonating especially with a new generation of millennial readers who are hungry for meaningful spiritual connections.
This updated edition preserves its “conversational” approach and composite client profile (a woman with bulimia). To frame the ongoing significance of the book today, this conversation answers such basic human questions as: Why do I have this illness? Who am I to think that I deserve better? How will my life be different when I awaken to a deeper level? What exactly is a transformation?
Publié par
Date de parution
09 juillet 2019
Nombre de lectures
0
EAN13
9781684423156
Langue
English
Poids de l'ouvrage
1 Mo
PRAISE FOR VIOLA FODOR AND DESPERATELY SEEKING SELF
KATIE
In her deeply rich book about life, hope, and healing, Viola shares how we can look beyond the symptoms of an eating disorder to explore who we are, what we need, and how we can create lasting change for ourselves.
-Katie Dunnigan, M.A. (C Psyc), Registered Psychotherapist
ARYNE
As someone who has fully healed from an eating disorder, I have shared this book with many people, both sufferers and would-be therapists. Instead of diagnosing and categorizing, Desperately Seeking Self understands eating disorders from a wider perspective. Readers will gain new insights and learn how suffering can help us grow and gain wisdom that might not have arisen otherwise.
CHERYL
Viola has written an important book that addresses the deep need within each of us to heal psychologically, physically and spiritually. Through practical ways, Viola engages the reader so that long term healing can happen. It was such a relief to find a book that gives us a way not to abandon the true self in the journey to wellness.
-The Reverend Cheryl Baker
GRACE
Viola deftly takes readers through a remarkable journey of self discovery, explaining how the strategies they have been using to help themselves are actually hurting them and what to do instead. For those with the courage to look compassionately and unflinchingly within, and to act on what they see, this book will lead you to freedom. It is a bold yet gentle invitation to know thyself.
-Grace Yogaretnam, human rights lawyer and yogini
AMY
This book has a special place in my heart. It brought comfort and hope at a time when I needed them most. Desperately Seeking Self is for anyone who wants to understand the deeper and real reasons for eating problems. What sets this book apart is the viewpoint that true healing and inner freedom are possible. The wisdom and positive message shared in this book make it a timeless classic.
-Amy Smith, M.A., Registered Psychotherapist
JANET
Desperately Seeking Self helped me stop blaming myself and others for not having a perfect life, or a perfect body, or a perfect job, or a perfect relationship, or a perfect family, etc. These unrealistic expectations caused me to constantly berate and sabotage myself. Desperately Seeking Self showed me how to take responsibility for my life and free myself of my unrealistic, unhealthy, and crippling expectations. It offers profound insights and practical wisdom for bringing you back to who you are on the deepest level. And I know that you too will like what you find!
-Janet Lovegrove, Reg.Nurse, MSc, Health and Wellness Consultant and trained Life Process Transformation Facilitator
WENDY
As a university professor, I see firsthand the struggles that students and teachers experience with issues of mental health, wellness, and academic success. Desperately Seeking Self is a resource I have used with pre-service and experienced teachers, and I have found it to be an effective guide for educators, guidance counsellors and academic advisors. The book introduces key issues of self, awareness and quiet time, in an empathetic and approachable way. I highly recommend this innovative book, and the author, Viola Fodor, for leading the way; inspiring educators to talk openly and compassionately about the critical importance of learning self-acceptance and self-care.
-Dr. Wendy Barber, Associate Professor, Faculty of Education, University of Ontario Institute of Technology
JEAN
In her book Desperately Seeking Self , psychotherapist and educator, Viola Fodor, provides a pathway to healing for those ready to free themselves from a disordered relationship with food. With her expert guidance and personal wisdom, Viola gently guides readers to a place of true recovery.
-Jean LaMantia, Registered Dietitian, Toronto, Canada
CRYSTAL
The moment I attended Viola s introductory workshop about eating disorders, healing and wellness based on Desperately Seeking Self , I felt it was for me. Listening to Viola inform the class of her life experiences and how similar it was to what I was going through on a daily basis, changed my life. While reading Desperately Seeking Self , the book touched my soul and I could relate to every page, every word, validating my life and confirming that there was hope. Acknowledging my needs and knowing that Quiet Time was always there for me and gave me a way to mentor and care for myself. Viola s process will always be a part of me and for this, I am forever grateful.
-Crystal Farmer, Assistant Chief, Six Nations Fire Emergency Services
CHRISTINA
I was given this special book at a time where I was desperate to find inner peace. Little did I know that each page of Desperately Seeking Self would invite me into a deeper understanding of my pain, and that still to this day, it brings up new insights and opens my perspective as I apply the teachings in my life. As someone who once felt silenced and unheard, reading Viola s message felt as if, for the first time, I was being understood and my experiences captured; my pain and struggle felt valid and yet her message awakened me to recognize my own capacity to heal. It gave me hope. Now as a social worker and researcher in the field of eating disorders, I refer to this book and Viola s teachings in the hopes of continuing to spread her compassionate and humane message-that healing is possible, and that inner silence can allow for a true sense of our self to shine through in such meaningful ways! Enjoy!
-Christina Hyland, RSW, MSW
JOCELYN
Desperately Seeking Self is as relevant today as it was the first time I read it fifteen years ago while in the height of my bulimia. Now, fully recovered, and a practising psychotherapist, I still see Viola s approach as the missing component in modern counselling and therapy.
-Jocelyn Proctor, Naturopathic Nutritional Therapist and Psychotherapist
PAMELA
After 12 years of struggling with anorexia/bulimia, and after trying every technique, workshop, program and expert available, I finally found Viola Fodor. I was desperate, resigned, near suicidal by then and she was my last hope. She taught me how to live from my center-what she d call, the True Self-and Desperately Seeking Self became my bible. It s a special book that gave me guidance and support through my healing transformation.
-Pamela Tames, certified Life Process Transformation Facilitator
DESPERATELY
SEEKING
SELF
2nd Edition
AN INNER GUIDEBOOK FOR PEOPLE WITH EATING PROBLEMS
Viola Fodor
Turner Publishing Company
Nashville, Tennessee
www.turnerpublishing.com
Copyright 2019 Viola Fodor
Desperately Seeking Self Second Edition
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Cover design: Maddie Cothern
Book design: Mallory Collins
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Library of Congress CIP Data
Fodor, Viola, 1949-1st edition
Desperately seeking self: a guidebook for people with eating problems / by Viola Fodor.
p. cm.
ISBN 0-936077-28-X (pbk. : alk. paper)
1. Eating disorders-Popular works. 2. Eating disorders-Patients-Religious life.
3. Meditation-Therapeutic use.
I. Title.
RC552.E18F63 1997
6l6.85 26-dc21 97-16427
CIP
Printed in the United States of America
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DESPERATELY
SEEKING
SELF
2nd Edition
This book is dedicated to all individuals who are desperately seeking to make sense of their eating behaviors in the hope that somehow healing is possible .
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Foreword by James Maskalyk, MD
Acknowledgments
Introduction by Carolyn Costin
My Journey/Your Journey
A Conversation
Quiet Time
About The Author
FOREWORD
This book is for you. And for me. Though the cover says it is a book for people with eating problems, it is not. It is a map to a place you and I share with every person in the world, though not everyone sees it, a guide to our deepest self. When we reach it, whatever the challenge that has turned us in its direction, we discover it holds what we need to meet it.
This idea is radical, simple, and true. It s also hard to discover. Viola did though, and as proof of its legitimacy, from the moment she did, realized the healing it held was bigger than her. It wanted to spread to as many people as possible, so it might continue its incessant work of repair.
So she made this