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Publié par	New Harbinger Publications
Date de parution	02 janvier 2019
Nombre de lectures	0
EAN13	9781684031610
Langue	English
Poids de l'ouvrage	1 Mo

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“Brian’s compassion, wisdom, sense of humor, and ability to put new parents at ease come through on every page of this book. As an advocate for new and working parents, I’m thrilled to see such a practical, honest guide to make sure new dads are as informed and engaged as possible, every step of the way.”
— Jessica Shortall , author of Work. Pump. Repeat , and TED speaker on the case for paid family leave
“Authored by one of the few male birth doulas in the US, this book is a one-of-a-kind resource for expectant dads and birth partners. Inclusive in tone, this gem of a book shares birth and breastfeeding advice that can be useful to ALL expectant parents regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. The relationship and emotional wellness pointers provided throughout give much-needed support and guidance on labor and breastfeeding support, postpartum depression, and much more! The perfect baby shower gift for any dad-to-be, this book is the only resource fathers will need to be fully engaged birth partners and parents.”
— Robbie Davis-Floyd, PhD , author of Birth as an American Rite of Passage and Ways of Knowing about Birth
“Have now read the book, and what can I say? Well, number one, wish I could say I wrote this. Often, I have felt dads were left on the sidelines either because they were passive or felt they were in the way. Of course, things have changed, and Brian has very succinctly described how partners can be both helpful and a participant in this most important experience in one’s life—in order to build a healthy, lasting relationship for a family and marriage. I think this book is a must for all new parents-to-be. This should be an included part of every new OB packet. It will be for my patients.”
— Robert E. Schorlemer, MD, FACOG , clinical practice of obstetrics and gynecology
“It should be mandatory that every soon-to-be father has to read this. Brian made the biggest difference with my husband on our fourth child. My only regret is that I didn’t know him sooner. I didn’t know that the birthing process could be so easy, and for the first time ever, I didn’t want to choke my husband in the delivery room! Brian changed my caveman into a caring partner that was so helpful and not annoying at all. Trust me, buy this for every man you know having a child soon, first born or not! It’s a huge game changer.”
— Erica Rico , morning show host, KKBQ-FM 93Q Houston
“As a pediatrician, I hear from fathers almost daily that they don’t feel they have a role in their growing child. Brian the Birth Guy empowers dads through knowledge of what to expect, focus on bolstering relationships, and problem-solving techniques to help manage dad’s new responsibilities. Luckily, this guide is also really helpful for moms too!”
— Sky Izaddoost, MD, FAAP , pediatrician at the Children’s Hospital of San Antonio Primary Care-Stone Oak
“If an expectant dad wants to be a champion in the delivery room, they should definitely read this book. It is the only comprehensive guide available in bookstores that covers all aspects of pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding from a birth partner’s point of view. Brian Salmon’s many years of hands-on experience in the delivery and recovery room make him uniquely qualified to provide practical, time-tested pointers that you won’t find anywhere else.”
— Stuart “Dr. Stu” Fischbein, OB-GYN , founder of Birthing Instincts, and coauthor of Fearless Pregnancy
“Finally! A book for dads-to-be! This is a must-read for any partner about to jump into the perilous birth journey to parenthood. Evidence-based as well as anecdotal, Brian and Kirsten cover everything from how to get your relationship ready for a rocky labor ride, your important role in this messy but exciting process, how to cope with the postpartum reverberation, and beyond. I have worked with Brian through numerous births and he tells it like it is—this is the real stuff! Read this book and become her hero!”
— Kelly Morales, MD , obstetrician and gynecologist
“This book should be read by every dad who truly desires to be a partner in this amazing journey of pregnancy.”
— David Ghozland, MD , obstetrician and gynecologist
“This should be at the top of the baby shower list for any soon-to-be dad! I love Brian’s passion for equipping dads in this wild journey called “Fatherhood.” This book is loaded with useful information for those of us who want to be the best partner for our spouse and absolutely rock it as a dad!”
— Adam Busby , Star of TLC’s Outdaughtered , and father to quintuplets
“Finally, dads have their own What to Expect -style guide made just for them. From pregnancy, labor and delivery, and navigating the first few months with baby, Brian’s guide is fun and easy to read. Best, it helps dads feel empowered and included in the entire process, even nursing!”
— Rachel Pitzel, Esq , content creator and social media influencer @xo.rachelpitzel

Publisher’s Note
This publication is designed to provide accurate and authoritative information in regard to the subject matter covered. It is sold with the understanding that the publisher is not engaged in rendering medical, psychological, financial, legal, or other professional services. If expert medical assistance or counseling is needed, the services of a competent professional should be sought.
Distributed in Canada by Raincoast Books
Copyright © 2019 by Brian W. Salmon and Kirsten Brunner
New Harbinger Publications, Inc.
5674 Shattuck Avenue
Oakland, CA 94609
www.newharbinger.com
JEDI and related trademarks incorporating the word JEDI are registered trademarks of Lucasfilm Entertainment Company Ltd. LLC and are used in this book pursuant to the Fair Use Doctrine. No sponsorship or endorsement by, and no affiliation with, the trademark owner are claimed or implied by the author or publisher.
Cover design by Amy Shoup
Interior design by Michele Waters-Kermes
Acquired by Jess O’Brien
Edited by James Lainsbury
Illustrations by Isabel Hillock Davidson
All Rights Reserved
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data on file
This book is dedicated to the many phenomenal dads and birth partners we’ve worked with through the years. You inspire and motivate us daily with your commitment to your families and your enthusiasm for the birth adventure.
— Brian and Kirsten
Contents
Contents
Foreword
Introduction
1. The Basics
2. Preparing Your Relationship and Yourself for Parenthood
3. Planning and Packing for the Birth
4. Navigating Early Labor at Home
5. Supporting Your Partner Through Active Labor
6. Pushing, Childbirth, and Beyond
7. Navigating C- Sections and Other Unusual Birth Circumstances
8. Your New Baby and Breastfeeding Basics
9. Bringing Baby Home
Acknowledgments
Birth Guy’s Glossary
References
Foreword
A little over eighteen years ago, I began the journey into fatherhood when my oldest was born a mere five pounds and fifteen ounces. I remember when our son entered this world like it was yesterday. A fierce shrill cry exited his lungs as the doctor assisted him into our universe, and my heart melted the moment he was placed in my arms. While this moment, forever emblazoned in my mind, was joyful, I was scared as hell about what was to come.
No one can fully prepare you for the new role you are about to experience as a dad. But there is one guy who can get you pretty close.
I first met Brian when he called my office more than four years ago. He was insistent about connecting with me to share his story of being a dad and a doula. I agreed to meet one day in LA over lunch and found that we had a lot in common. We are both dads, and we both have a mission to empower men to take on their new role of fatherhood with confidence. I had been building my company, Diaper Dude, for over fifteen years when we first met. Since then, his passion and commitment to fatherhood has continued to impress me. He has once again outdone himself with this guide to assist dads on their journey into fatherhood.
As you take on this new role, I encourage you to be open, honest, and patient. Brian can help you achieve that with this book. He lays out everything you need to know about your partner and how you can make her feel secure as she prepares to deliver your newborn. Keep in mind that there are moments when we all fail, but it is from this failure that we learn to be better parents.
Today the role of dad is changing dramatically. Embrace this change and get involved with parenting. With Brian’s help, you are sure to succeed.
— Chris Pegula
Creator of the company Diaper Dude and award- winning author of From Dude to Dad: The Diaper Dude Guide to Pregnancy.
Introduction
I f you are reading this book, I believe some congratulations are in order. Congrats on beginning a journey toward parenthood! Double congrats on wanting to take an active role in the experience. That puts you in an emerging group of twenty- first- century dads and birth partners who are not content to sit on the sidelines. You want to help your partner through the pregnancy and birth. You’re ready to take an active role in feeding, soothing, and caring for your baby. You are a modern- day parent, and you’re looking for the information and advice needed to be a fully involved partner. This book is going to give you all of the tools and advice needed to do just that.
I was in your shoes more than thirteen years ago, when I was waiting for my first daughter to be born. The birth was an incredible, life- changing experience, but, to be perfectly honest, I didn’t feel as prepared as I thought I should be. There simply weren’t enough resources or classes directed at dads. Sure, there were some books and workshops for parents, but they didn’t speak to dads from th